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  • e1

    3 37.50%
  • e2

    1 12.50%
  • e3

    1 12.50%
  • e4

    2 25.00%
  • e5

    0 0%
  • e6

    6 75.00%
  • e7

    0 0%
  • e8

    2 25.00%
  • e9

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chanaynay View Post
    That said, you don't strike me as cut-and-dry as an e5. I dunno how much of this part of yourself is suppressed IRL, but if these are your real thoughts and not something you have to put on as a front to get into your "combative debating" mode then 6w5 would make much more sense. I think @Nicodemus types as INTJ e5 (although I'm sure to him it doesn't matter much either way), and there's a blatantly obvious difference between the way you two present yourselves that couldn't just be accounted for by a difference in instinctual stacking.

    Although I really miss his flirty side. I think I've neglected him too much recently.
    I am not 100% on e5 either; finding me a tritype is why you guys are here, remember? Everything I have posted in debate is sincere, why would it not be? What I am saying to you now is that the kind of thoughts and affect I express here don't preoccupy me all of the time.

    There's no question that there are many, many, differences between myself and Nicodemus. I thought he was an e5 but probably a 5w4 (he doesn't have the INTP-ish feel the 5w6 INTJs do)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chanaynay View Post
    so/sx? Dunno, usually someone could be a completely different type like an ESTJ e1 and I'd still relate to them if they were so/sx (@EJCC). There's a lot of interpersonal warmth going on and a positive/accepting attitude to draw people in. I could see so/sp, and since he said himself that he comes here to debate, he's drawing from his more counterphobic side that is usually less present IRL. Dunno, from his pictures in the picture thread he seems a lot more soft-spoken and guarded. But basically I could really see any stacking for him that isn't sp-last, just from experience.

    The connection to 3 is definitely something I agree with though.
    At first I thought sp/sx, but he started seeming way too concerned with making a contribution, finding a community or social climate that would secure himself and his future, group trends, the "us vs them" team-thinking that social 6s often fall to; and I believe his disintegration is making him anti-social in the way that an sp dom would become reckless or self-destructive, or an sx dom ... critical of relationships or something?

    I give him sx because he seems to go on so much about his ideal mate and who can't find a mate and which people should be doing more and less mating. I could see so/sp too though.

    I'm only sure he's cp6; probably either 612 or 613.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nicodemus View Post
    But is this combative debating not representative of who you are? Do you debate about topics and in ways you do not relate to in real life?
    Oh, it is a part of my personality, for sure. What is not representative is the ease at which I do it here - I am a very poor debater IRL. This is probably because of SAD, the trouble I have communicating with people I don't know, and most of the time I tend not to speak before having thought the answer out internally.

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    I will also add a poll to the thread. Multiple choice obviously. Just select the three types that you think make up my tritype, though, i would appreciate people posting their reasons for each choice in the thread as well...

    As for instinctive stacking, there seems to be a tentative agreement about sx/sp.

    @Noon My interest is these things is very academic/theoretical. I am not that interested in socialising and my desire for a wider ethnicity-based community is for practical and political, not emotional reasons. Re other people I am only interested, at the moment, in getting laid (and unfortunately because my sex drive is so high whenever I lie down in bed I start having visions about sex).

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kullervo View Post
    I am not 100% on e5 either; finding me a tritype is why you guys are here, remember? Everything I have posted in debate is sincere, why would it not be? What I am saying to you now is that the kind of thoughts and affect I express here don't preoccupy me all of the time.
    Yeah, this is more or less some sort of indirect interview.

    For tritype, I'd say 6 core. It's hard to tell about the other fixes, but I'd say either 1 or 9 for gut (1w9 and 9w1 particularly, but I don't think wings in tritype that aren't your core are really that important) and the heart is harder to tell...I could see 2w3 in the very back. But 612 sounds a little overboard, so I'd go with 692 if you agree on e2.

    I'm only gonna vote on e6 for now until I'm more certain.
    7w6 - 2w3 - 8w7 sx/so


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    Quote Originally Posted by Chanaynay View Post
    Yeah, this is more or less some sort of indirect interview.
    I know that

    Quote Originally Posted by Chanaynay View Post
    For tritype, I'd say 6 core. It's hard to tell about the other fixes, but I'd say either 1 or 9 for gut (1w9 and 9w1 particularly, but I don't think wings in tritype that aren't your core are really that important) and the heart is harder to tell...I could see 2w3 in the very back. But 612 sounds a little overboard, so I'd go with 692 if you agree on e2.

    I'm only gonna vote on e6 for now until I'm more certain.
    OK.

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    If you haven't, you should read Character and Neurosis, figure out which neuroses are your main issues. http://socionix.com/misc/books/12177...d-Neurosis.pdf

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    Strong poll results.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Evee View Post
    Strong poll results.
    I want you or someone else to explain what of e1 you see in me. Because I don't really understand why at all, just looking through e1 profiles.

    e6 and e3 yes. But e1?

    Type 1 Enneagram Type Description |9types.com I don't relate to much of this at all.

    (from the e1 profile)

    How to Get Along with Me

    Take your share of the responsibility so I don't end up with all the work. (Yes)
    Acknowledge my achievements. (Always good but I'm not dependent on other peoples' validation)
    I'm hard on myself. Reassure me that I'm fine the way I am. (Yes)
    Tell me that you value my advice. (I don't need to be told this, wtf)
    Be fair and considerate, as I am. (I wouldn't say that I'm the considerate guy tbh)
    Apologize if you have been unthoughtful. It will help me to forgive. (Don't just apologise. Do something for me to show you are sorry.)
    Gently encourage me to lighten up and to laugh at myself when I get uptight, but hear my worries first. (Nope.)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kullervo View Post
    I want you or someone else to explain what of e1 you see in me. Because I don't really understand why at all, just looking through e1 profiles.

    e6 and e3 yes. But e1?

    Type 1 Enneagram Type Description |9types.com I don't relate to much of this at all.

    (from the e1 profile)

    How to Get Along with Me

    Take your share of the responsibility so I don't end up with all the work. (Yes)
    Acknowledge my achievements. (Always good but I'm not dependent on other peoples' validation)
    I'm hard on myself. Reassure me that I'm fine the way I am. (Yes)
    Tell me that you value my advice. (I don't need to be told this, wtf)
    Be fair and considerate, as I am. (I wouldn't say that I'm the considerate guy tbh)
    Apologize if you have been unthoughtful. It will help me to forgive. (Don't just apologise. Do something for me to show you are sorry.)
    Gently encourage me to lighten up and to laugh at myself when I get uptight, but hear my worries first. (Nope.)
    I can see you possibly being an eight. I'm not sure, though.

    Do you know your instinctual stacking?

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