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    Quote Originally Posted by SearchingforPeace View Post
    It is more how I live.... searching for peace is my true goal..... nothing is more important, yet more absent....
    9 is often associated with peace but I don't think their online profiles get it right. 9s fear separation because it disrupts their inner sense of peace, but what they fear separation from isn't necessarily friends or loved ones - it's from whatever they've merged with that provides them a sense of identity. This is part of why 9 is an attachment type.

    Attachment represents the desire of the ego to maintain a comfortable and stable relationship with people or things that are identified with. Simply put, we want to hold onto whatever works well for us, be it a person, a job, a self-image, a feeling state, or a comfortable chair.

    The Attachment-based Group includes types Three, Six, and Nine. These types have problems with deeply held attachments to people, situations, or states that are “working” for them. Nines may see their relationship with an idealized other or a comforting routine or a favorite food or a television show as a source of their stability and inner peace. Whatever the source, Nines do not want their “comfort zone” to be tampered with or changed.
    When sites describe 9 as a gut type that suppresses their rage, the rage comes from the suppression of one's true self because they let people, things, concepts, etc influence their persona as they merge with it. So I'd say the fact that you are harmony-seeking isn't the completely decisive way to proclaim yourself as a 9, but it's whether your identity is fortified by your relationship to certain things or ideas.

    Moreover my condition of a year ago fits level 8 of enneagram 9 health levels.... I don't relate to 8, 2, or 3 health levels....
    I almost forgot health levels existed omg. But my take on those is that everyone tends to overestimate just how healthy they are.

    To me you seem like someone who's concerned with attractiveness, how impressive you are to others, your lovability, etc. That's why my impression of you made me wonder if you're on the 2/3 spectrum.
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    Quote Originally Posted by SearchingforPeace View Post
    It is more how I live.... searching for peace is my true goal..... nothing is more important, yet more absent....

    Moreover my condition of a year ago fits level 8 of enneagram 9 health levels.... I don't relate to 8, 2, or 3 health levels....
    I don't see you at all as an e8 or e2 or e3. E9 seems most accurate to me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Protege View Post
    I don't see you at all as an e8 or e2 or e3. E9 seems most accurate to me.
    Interestingly enough, I can easily see him as 2w1. but that's just my impression
    You are so arbitrary.
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    Quote Originally Posted by SearchingforPeace View Post
    Constantly, actually. I can't decide which is in my tritype, but I wonder if it is my core instead of 9..... I test there rather than 9, but 9 seems more true....
    Imho, you're a cp 6w7. You don't strike me as a core gut type, and being a 6 would explain your connection to 9.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Wind Up Rex View Post
    Imho, you're a cp 6w7. You don't strike me as a core gut type, and being a 6 would explain your connection to 9.
    I could buy that more than an image type for him. He doesn't seem like any of the male 2w1 or 3w2 EFJs I have known. He's a bit too earnest in the way he communicates...if that makes sense.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Chanaynay View Post
    9 is often associated with peace but I don't think their online profiles get it right. 9s fear separation because it disrupts their inner sense of peace, but what they fear separation from isn't necessarily friends or loved ones - it's from whatever they've merged with that provides them a sense of identity. This is part of why 9 is an attachment type.



    When sites describe 9 as a gut type that suppresses their rage, the rage comes from the suppression of one's true self because they let people, things, concepts, etc influence their persona as they merge with it. So I'd say the fact that you are harmony-seeking isn't the completely decisive way to proclaim yourself as a 9, but it's whether your identity is fortified by your relationship to certain things or ideas.
    Oh, I am a gut type. And spent so much time coming to terms with my anger. Anger is my friend, my companion. I have suppressed too many things in pursuit of harmony.

    I almost forgot health levels existed omg. But my take on those is that everyone tends to overestimate just how healthy they are.
    I was the opposite. I was at level 8 of enneagram type 9...... I was extremely unhealthy....

    To me you seem like someone who's concerned with attractiveness, how impressive you are to others, your lovability, etc. That's why my impression of you made me wonder if you're on the 2/3 spectrum.
    I really don't give a fuck about what others think about me. I do nothing to get others to like me. I don't suck up to anyone. I don't flatter. I don't seduce or entertain. I just am me with no effort to get people on my side. I don't dress to impress. I don't spend much time on my appearance.

    I always found it odd people liking me and trusting in me without reason. I am surrounded by people who have far more faith in me than I have in myself. I have been amazed that people trust me near instantly, have great confidence in me, and rely on me. When bosses tell me I am the only one they trust, I am surprised. When I get promoted, I am shocked.

    The only person who I need to love me is my wife. And that stems from my mom's neglect and abandonment. Merging with my wife is my life. Little else matters.

    I don't pursue success. It isn't a driving force for me. Love matters. But not as much as harmony within myself, within my marriage.
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    And I am not a hedgehog......

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    Jesus said "Blessed are the peacemakers" not "blessed are the conflict avoiders.....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wind Up Rex View Post
    Imho, you're a cp 6w7. You don't strike me as a core gut type, and being a 6 would explain your connection to 9.
    As a disintegrated 9, I used to be very 6ish. I find little connection to 6 today.
    Quote Originally Posted by Archilochus
    The fox knows many things--the hedgehog one big one.
    And I am not a hedgehog......

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    Jesus said "Blessed are the peacemakers" not "blessed are the conflict avoiders.....

    9w8 6w5 4w5 sx/so

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    Quote Originally Posted by Protege View Post
    I could buy that more than an image type for him. He doesn't seem like any of the male 2w1 or 3w2 EFJs I have known. He's a bit too earnest in the way he communicates...if that makes sense.
    Agreed. 2s are more "squishy". 3s are more slick. If I had to peg a heart fix, I actually could see 2, though.

    Quote Originally Posted by SearchingforPeace View Post
    As a disintegrated 9, I used to be very 6ish. I find little connection to 6 today.
    You still come across very 6. Maybe more balanced, but still 6. The fact that you are aware of the anger that you have is a pretty good indicator that you're likely not a 9. "Forgetting" or just not being conscious of anger one way or the other is the hallmark of the 9. They don't think of themselves as "angry people".

    Here's a quote from Riso-Hudson on the subject:

    The Nine is the primary personality type in the Instinctive Center—the type most out of touch with their instinctual drives and ability to relate to the environment. This occurs because Nines do not want to be affected by the environment. They have established within themselves a kind of equilibrium, a feeling of peace and contentment, and they do not want their interactions with the world or with others to affect them. Similarly, they do not want to become unsettled by powerful feelings that their instincts would stir in them. Nines have dissociated from the intensity of their passions, their drives, and their anger, sufficiently to allow them to remain tranquil and even-tempered.
    Suppression of anger is more of a 1 thing. Given what you've described, if you're gut triad at all, it's 1w2. That said, I still think 6w7 is more likely.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Wind Up Rex View Post
    Agreed. 2s are more "squishy". 3s are more slick. If I had to peg a heart fix, I actually could see 2, though.



    You still come across very 6. Maybe more balanced, but still 6. The fact that you are aware of the anger that you have is a pretty good indicator that you're likely not a 9. "Forgetting" or just not being conscious of anger one way or the other is the hallmark of the 9. They don't think of themselves as "angry people".

    Here's a quote from Riso-Hudson on the subject:



    Suppression of anger is more of a 1 thing. Given what you've described, if you're gut triad at all, it's 1w2. That said, I still think 6w7 is more likely.
    I was never aware of the anger until people here helped me to see it. I was oblivious. I suppressed all negative emotions for the better part of 30+ years.... I stoically didn't react to verbal abuse from my brother and my wife and others for my entire life. I avoided anger of my own and hated the anger of others. Dealing with my anger last year was a very hard struggle for me, but I finally dealt with it....and accepted it....

    And again, 1 speaks nothing to me....
    Quote Originally Posted by Archilochus
    The fox knows many things--the hedgehog one big one.
    And I am not a hedgehog......

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    Jesus said "Blessed are the peacemakers" not "blessed are the conflict avoiders.....

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