definitely sx next as I prefer intimate relationships, one-on-one. For better or worse, that's why I get very intoxicated in my romantic relationships. Attached, even if that person isn't always right.
But even non-sexual relationships. I had a dude roommate once and we were like identical. We would rather hang out at the apartment and shoot the shit and laugh at everything than go out. Kinda hurt my sex life, but it was ok.
so, as I understand it, is more involved in the community and being a "team player." I am neither....though one day hopefully.