It is how you present on the forumz. I know you have SPs in your family that you don't relate to, and you get annoyed by people saying it's how you "vibe"... but it is how you vibe
You come across online as having a bigger personality than the average ENFP, and nothing like an ENTJ. You use frilly speech, you make a visual impact with what you say, you are not business like.
ETA: I'm not saying you are ESFP, I would not make that kind of presumption, it is however how you come across.
whachu talkin bout? I'm ENFP and you won't find a bigger personality
ENFP: We put the Fi in Fire
Motivation: Dark Worker
Alignment: Chaotic Neutral
MTG Color: black/red
Male Archtype: King/Lover
"You are a gay version of Gambit" Speed Gavroche
"I wish that I could be affected by any hate, but I can't, cuz I just get affected by the bank" Chamillionaire