Hello guys. I've been lurking for a while here and I'm not sure of my type...
Here's some quick(!) facts:
-I keep quiet in big gatherings, but I can make a impressive speech when I have to.
-I'm impulsive and dislikes order.
-I don't leap at leading opportunities, but if I'm nominated I can probably do a good job, though my standard is usually above others'.
-I cry easily at emotional books/films/pictures... and I feel as if sometimes I am too emotional.
-My preference for socialising goes like this... 1) One close friend/small group of friends 2) alone time 3)large group of strangers.
-If I don't know too many people, I would rather read/play a game than go to a party.
-Conflict drains me, and I avoid confrontation even if it means that I have to talk behind someone's back (bitchy, I know :c)
-I'm way more expressive in writing than in speaking, because I can choose the perfect words. Although I do ramble a lot sometimes in the presence of my close friends.
-I appear to be very extraverted, talkative and hyper around close friends, in large gatherings I tend to zone out a lot.
-I often appear to want to 'heal the world', although my ideas are usually impractical.
-I prefer to have conversations one-on-one than in a group.
-I'm full of possibilities and I hate routine, plans, organisation etc.
-I get very defensive if my personal 'way of life' is questioned.
-I have trouble with saying no in case I offend people...
-I can be logical, but I also feel intense emotions
-I can relate to emotions, but it's hard to talk about my own.
-I'm child-like, as if I am unwilling to grow up.
-I'm often over modest, for fear of being seen as brash.
-I'm very curious, but I get disappointed often because the image/concept inside my head is more awesome than the reality.
-I'm very impulsive and thrill seeking, I love rollercoasters, ziplines etc as they make me feel very alive.
-I prefer thrilling activities above sitting at home imagining stuff.
-I spend a lot of time having imaginary conversations in my head without realising. And sometimes I imagine the possibility of situations.
-My friends describe me as highly intelligent, but very 'dopey', sometimes it appears as it I'm on another planet. I genuinely don't realise this though. I'm a little spacey, idealistic about the future, but I live in the present if something interests me.
-I'm clumsy, but I have good hand-eye co-ordination.
-I love creating things, e.g. woodwork, building circuits, drawing etc.
-I rarely if ever finish my projects.
-I learn things best by hands on experience.
-I get addicted easily, and do intensive amounts of research, but sometimes never end up doing it.
-I build intricate worlds inside my head when I can't sleep.
-I scored higher on the second section of the Frame line test, which suggests that I have a preference for details.
-I rarely notice my surroundings, my thoughts are usually elsewhere. But I can remember details of things if they are important.
-I often walk away without taking the shopping I just paid for, but I remember memories/conversations clearly from years ago :/
-I love hands on experiences, and this summer I plan to go out and 'do stuff' everyday. I want to bungee jump.
-I get tired of boring theories, but I can be a mini-encyclopedia on a particular topic/theory if I'm interested.
-I love creative writing and writing in metaphors, adding lots of detailed sentences, but I get tired of reading detailed sentences and instead prefer action packed books. Though if it's a book with a lot of imagery I like to pause to imagine everything c:
-I dislike facts that I will never use >
-I'm very calm to the outside world, even if my emotions are very intense
-I love sad movies, and also extremely hilarious ones.
-I HATE HATE HATE conflict
-I've very indecisive
-I don't like questionnaires because I like to post random thoughts rather than gather facts to answer a question. That drains me.
...but I can answer short questions if it will help you guys type me better...
[I'm definitely not a J]... I don't think I am one anyway
(I have a rough idea of what I am, but I don't want to influence anyone...soo)
Edit: please help with Enneagrams etc too, thanks