My wife scored evenly on the "Devoted-Adventurous" scales on the Oldham test. So is she devoted, or is she adventurous? I have literally seen her mentally torn between caring for her family and her desire to seek adventure. She's extremely attached to her family, yet I've seen her having to rationalize the need to take care of them via, "I don't want to be seen as a bad mother." But the dull daily routine of it begins to wear on her after a while. As the description of the ESTP states, "They will become stifled and unhappy dealing with routine chores." She prefers leisure to housework, and wants to be complimented on the chores she does.
My wife isn't a Thinker. As an Adventurous type, she doesn't really plan the adventure to any great degree, but prefers spontaneous activity that includes others. She doesn't intentionally or accidentally hurt other people's feelings. She'll talk to me about people who piss her off rather than confronting them. She talks about confrontation but it doesn't lead to anything.