HongDou
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- Nov 23, 2012
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- MBTI Type
- ENFP
- Enneagram
- 6w7
- Instinctual Variant
- so/sx
For fun, some mental exercise, and to finally decide on her type because sometimes I wonder if she could be something else.
-Her free time is almost always spent doing something with friends. She loves to go to parties, dress up, get hammered, and have a good time.
-She's positive but with a fire inside. She's energetic, self-confident, second-guesses others before herself, and she doesn't really blend in with the crowd.
-She can get so caught up in what's going on in her immediate surroundings that she isn't really good at checking back in with her friends that aren't around.
-Not too concerned with academic success. Doesn't respect the teacher unless she likes him/her as a person, but still marches to the beat of her own drum.
-Her main goal in life seems to be to have fun and be happy. She's not very vocal about her vulnerabilities, and she often withdraws and doesn't talk to anyone if she feels stressed or upset.
-She's friendly and engaging with anyone as long as she doesn't find them weird or creepy. If she does, she'll still be diplomatic to not cause any trouble but generally avoids contact with them.
-Generally laid back and easygoing with a positive attitude, but she also can take on the role of the leader if no one else will. With me personally, she's more directive because I can't make decisions with much certainty really so she decides what to do.
-Uninhibited, will do anything despite what people around her will think or say.
-Flexible. She once told me, "when you live here, plans can change all the time so you have to learn to go with the flow."
-Loves her TV shows. She often sends me clips from TV shows like Ugly Betty and she'll be like "omg we are these two." We still tell each other that we're like Meredith and Cristina from Grey's Anatomy. She's my "person."
-She likes people with quirks. However, she won't hesitate calling something weird if she thinks it is.
-Doesn't like to be relied on. She once didn't talk to her friends for a week because they all expected her to be the designated driver, when she didn't even want to go out (she just wanted to stay in and hang out). Sometimes she likes her alone time with people to bond.
-She'll try to make sure everyone is happy and having a good time. She doesn't like seeing her friends sad or uncomfortable, so she'll do anything to try to help.
-She knows what's acceptable or not. Back when we were younger I wanted to invite my friend over to a garage party, but she said I shouldn't without asking. She's definitely better at taking other people into consideration than I am.
-She's pretty open-minded about anything if you're her friend. She's willing to change her perspective about things because she'll always ask you why you do something or like something.
-Dedicated to lacrosse. She's very passionate about it, her teammates, her games, etc.
-Kind of rejects the French part of her identity. If someone would use the French pronunciation of her name (that isn't her dad), she'd say "no! it's 'gen-uh-veev'."
-Very sweet and caring, engaging and adventurous, but also no bullshit and direct.
FWIW, I've considered these types for her:
ESFJ, ESFP.
2, 7, 8.
so/sx, sx/so.
She scored ESFJ on her first test, then ENFP on her latest test.
Can provide more info if needed.
Any thoughts?
-Her free time is almost always spent doing something with friends. She loves to go to parties, dress up, get hammered, and have a good time.
-She's positive but with a fire inside. She's energetic, self-confident, second-guesses others before herself, and she doesn't really blend in with the crowd.
-She can get so caught up in what's going on in her immediate surroundings that she isn't really good at checking back in with her friends that aren't around.
-Not too concerned with academic success. Doesn't respect the teacher unless she likes him/her as a person, but still marches to the beat of her own drum.
-Her main goal in life seems to be to have fun and be happy. She's not very vocal about her vulnerabilities, and she often withdraws and doesn't talk to anyone if she feels stressed or upset.
-She's friendly and engaging with anyone as long as she doesn't find them weird or creepy. If she does, she'll still be diplomatic to not cause any trouble but generally avoids contact with them.
-Generally laid back and easygoing with a positive attitude, but she also can take on the role of the leader if no one else will. With me personally, she's more directive because I can't make decisions with much certainty really so she decides what to do.
-Uninhibited, will do anything despite what people around her will think or say.
-Flexible. She once told me, "when you live here, plans can change all the time so you have to learn to go with the flow."
-Loves her TV shows. She often sends me clips from TV shows like Ugly Betty and she'll be like "omg we are these two." We still tell each other that we're like Meredith and Cristina from Grey's Anatomy. She's my "person."
-She likes people with quirks. However, she won't hesitate calling something weird if she thinks it is.
-Doesn't like to be relied on. She once didn't talk to her friends for a week because they all expected her to be the designated driver, when she didn't even want to go out (she just wanted to stay in and hang out). Sometimes she likes her alone time with people to bond.
-She'll try to make sure everyone is happy and having a good time. She doesn't like seeing her friends sad or uncomfortable, so she'll do anything to try to help.
-She knows what's acceptable or not. Back when we were younger I wanted to invite my friend over to a garage party, but she said I shouldn't without asking. She's definitely better at taking other people into consideration than I am.
-She's pretty open-minded about anything if you're her friend. She's willing to change her perspective about things because she'll always ask you why you do something or like something.
-Dedicated to lacrosse. She's very passionate about it, her teammates, her games, etc.
-Kind of rejects the French part of her identity. If someone would use the French pronunciation of her name (that isn't her dad), she'd say "no! it's 'gen-uh-veev'."
-Very sweet and caring, engaging and adventurous, but also no bullshit and direct.
FWIW, I've considered these types for her:
ESFJ, ESFP.
2, 7, 8.
so/sx, sx/so.
She scored ESFJ on her first test, then ENFP on her latest test.
Can provide more info if needed.
Any thoughts?
So I'm leaning ESFP. Still not sure about Enneagram -- could see 2 or 7 -- and pretty damn sure on so/sx.
