I would go more towards 4w5/5w6/9w1. The 451 people on the forum have a certain rigidity that you seem to lack (southernkross and orangeappled). You present information in a "researcher" type of way but it's more open-ended as opposed to having the "right" argument. Sharing and presenting information the way you do is probably more about the So-first as opposed to fitting the 451 archetype.
There is a very mellow/tranquil but somewhat serious/somber quality about you. You seem to internalize the world around you and have a tenacious/insatiable curiosity about the world which indicates a 4/9 combo and 5w6 in the way you present your information. 5w4 seems a bit more fantastical and light-hearted (not that you aren't silly/funny but there is an overall seriousness/dryness about you). There is a big difference between the energy that 5w6 INJs (Lexicon, Nicodemus, Coriolis) and INJ 5w4s (Zbuck, Ene, sorry, I can't think of any 5w4 INTJs at the moment) project.
The order of the actual tritype is more for you to decide (methinks).
I don't know you and I'm basing this on one minute of watching your video/listening to all of it, so you might not want to take this all that seriously, but...
The way you talk/ how you carry yourself/ your voice eerily reminds me of interviews with Lana del Rey, a very obvious social 469. (4w3-6w7-9w1)- like to the point where I had both of your interviews going (I was listening to them) and hers stopped and I thought you were her.
So that's what I'm going with
p.s. I'm starting to think that as far as tritype goes, first impression of demeanor is the way to go in typing someone. It's that initial vibe.
Let me take a stab at this; please be warned I don't really understand the tritype -- even with the help of some other members.
First impression -- you're an INFJ. You have the deep piercing eyes of an introverted intuitive: and on your video I could just *feel* the Ni
radiating from you.
But you sure don't have any trace of the patented INTJ death stare.
OK, so you're an IN, you have Ni, you're not an INTJ. So yes, let's go with INFJ.
Second -- Enneagram. This one is a little more tricky, as you seemed to be all over the map, with 3, 4, and 9 predominating...
Your eyes are deep, soulful, tender: not the self-indwelling wells of pain of an INFP E4 (think Fiona Apple for example); and you appear to approach things with both feeling *and* intellect. So that sounds like 4 with a 5 wing. But on the other hand, you seem to be very keen on how you are being taken socially, seeking approval -- which sounds a bit like a 4 with a 3 wing.
So for your first stacking, I'm going for 4 with a 5 wing and a 3 wing just smaller than the 5 wing; BUT that one wing or the other predominates depending on the situation you're in.
From your descriptions in your posts about doorslamming, it sounds like you are very very loyal, and doorslam only when you can't take the pain any more.
And you kick yourself for having doorslammed.
To me, that sounds like a 6 (guarded but once trust is given, VERY loyal)...so I'd say that is a 6w5.
Then the fact you tested all over the map on your Enneagram -- that is a classic tell for a 9. So you've got a 9 in there somewhere.
So either 4w5(3); -- 6w5 -- 9w? or 4w5(3); -- 9w? -- 6w5.
For your instinctive stacking -- I didn't feel anything of the INTENSE drive for self-preservation, so you're not sp-dominant...but you seem to want to connect utterly, soul-to-soul, which would typify an sx-dom; But you did talk a lot about reaching out to others and demonstrated a good feel for social arrangements and interactions, and that smells like an so. But it doesn't seem like you effortlessly navigate the social realm. And, since people seem to do the best at their SECOND stacking, and trip over their own toes on their first stacking, I'm going to say you're a
4w5(3); 6w5; 9w? sx-so.
My best guess, subject to change without notice.
"Love never needs time. But friendship always needs time. More and more and more time, up to long past midnight." -- The Crime of Captain Gahagan
Yay! I want to come back to this and give my best input. I'm not thoroughly acquainted with Enneagram, so have some limited input. I do notice a strong 5w6 feeling. I'm not clear on tritype since I thought it formed a triangle between the numbers (mine being 4w5w9 which could also be yours?)
I also think you are an INFJ, which is my favorite type of human being at this point.
The first man to raise a fist is the man who's run out of ideas. H.G. WELLS
The first principle is that you must not fool yourself, and you are the easiest person to fool. FEYNMAN If this is monkey pee, you're on your own.SCULLY
Interestingly, I found tritype to be far easier than figuring out my main type. Why? for each instinct, there are only three choices. Given 3 choices, the correct choice is remarkably obvious.
In my case, it took a long while to figure out that I was type 9. But for tritypes, it was trivial to figure out that I was 953. Gut instinct: 8, 9 or 1. I'm not really 8, and I identify more with 9 than 1. Head instinct: 5, 6 or 7. I'm clearly a 5. Heart instinct: there's no way I'm 4 or 2, while 3 sort of applies. Hence 953.
An argument is two people sharing their ignorance.
A discussion is two people sharing their understanding, even when they disagree.
I just know a bit of you from vent, but I'd say you're 1w9. Tritype 1-4-5.
Are you okay with public analysis? I am not sure... I don't want to hurt your private zone, but here's my explenation, tell me if you hate me for posting it, I hope you don't.
From what I've seen on vent, you seem like a person who is highly aware of social atmosphere that is currently happening around you and you know how to adapt your self to this atmosphere very well, while you still keep the appearance of calmness and respect for others. I think you're someone with high standrs for yourself, while you let others to have much more personal freedom without judging them, than you allow your own self. You seem like you can be somehow hard on yourself, to fit to some kind of social/image ideal, but not the way 4, or an image type would be. You once said you are prone to feelings of shame, I think what might seem as an image focous and fear of shame, might be more of a fear of failing in the manners of social standards, the fear that others would see you as not "good", while I think your drives for this are subjective and deeply held personal standards that you have for your own self. I think the reason why you're less hursh on others, than yourself is a fear of offending someone's feelings, in the sense, that you don't won't to disturbe their inner peace and you don't want to throw others into meaningless conflicts. Also what pointed me towards 1 is your amazing art work you once posted, such a detailed work that needs such a self control and a lot of time, perfect for 1. This is my reason why I say 1w9 so/?
You also seem as a person who values beauty, individuality and freedom of personality, you also seem pretty emotional for a 1, that's why I say you're next type is 4.
My reason for 5 is that you seem as person who values knowledge and is willing to search 'till all the answers are found while you rather search within yourself, than look for help outside.