Oh wow Vasilisa...this is a challenging one for me. Prior to having looked through all the links you provided I would have said (rather confidently really) 4w5 1w2 6w5.
After looking at all the links though...and seeing that you repeatedly score fairly high on 3 & 9 <-this only becomes confusing for me when I see how low you repeatedly score on 6. IOW I think a good number of INFJ 4w5s & 9w1s are actually 6w5s (for example Phantonym, a very clear INFJ 6w5, scored as a core 9 on a test you linked to where you also scored as a core 9.) With high 3 & 9...I would probably just switch it around 6w5 1w2 4w5...and call it day...but with you I can't.
The dilemma I'm in here is that I've always seen 1 & 2 in you...i see it and hear it...even again tonight reading through all your words. But oh crap... you can't be 1 & 2 if you're 3 & 9.
So here's where I'm at...
4w5 9w1 6w5 The Seeker sp/so or so/sp (<-I guess I could also see you as 459 but in spite of being, yes, somewhat withdrawn... you have a very humanistic side to you. I've seen you come alive and take just stands in ways that has a very '6-like-humanity' vibe to it.)