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    Junior Member HeartBreaker's Avatar
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    Default Help me on this journey to validate my type.

    Sorry, I think I dramatized the title a bit..


    Anyways, i'm not quite sure what to display for you, my audience, that will capture your interest. But I appreciate help.

    Some people gave me an idea, possibilities of my type, on the welcoming thread I created which has fueled my desire to learn more.

    So I am just gonna write down some things about "who I am," because the typical questionnaire is bland and unoriginal.


    - I like changing my persona for different people, because I like to see their reactions. I know who I am, but I love playing different roles.

    - I'm competitive.. not in an annoying over bearing way, but I also enjoy proving that I am not the average person and that I can be quite impressive. Also, it's A nice way to pass time.

    - I am cynical of people, because I have seen how cruel people can be. But I don't tend to show most that side of me, or else they might not feel as welcome

    - I used to think I didn't like being the center of attention.. But now, I do! Like I said, I have this thing where I feel like I'm a performer, and others are my audience.

    - I'm not sure if this is relevant to my personality type, but pretty much almost everyone I have met who has known me for A bit, has always told me I'm, "Extremely mature and ahead of other people my age."

    Which I love, because I don't want to be like anyone else!

    - Whenever I'm with others, I tend to be the one that always sticks out.. naturally. In a group of loud people, I'm the calm one. In a group of quiet people, I'm the loud one. This isn't intentional, I don't try..

    - When I see A persona in someone that captures my interest, instead of adoring that person, I try and use their persona in my own interesting way.

    - I don't want to like someone else more than they like me. That would make me too vulnerable, which would destroy my balance..

    - Naturally, I'm an "honest" person. Sometimes too honest, and someone else always tells me, "Why did you DO that?!"
    Lies won't help people progress...

    - I also love..(Wow, the whole "love" word is being used a lot,) creating new things. Ideas, items, theories on how to solve things. In an original way, or course,

    - While I do like being impressive, if someone does not like me, I won't care at all. I already know they are missing out so it isn't really my problem. I'm not going to go out of the way to impress, and I usually don't have to try that hard to be seen as different.

    At my core, I'm actually very shy. I think I'm different, and I can easily start thinking about that in a pessimistic manner. I enjoy being smart and try hard to get praise from teachers, and it works.
    I think about my future quite A bit, and while it may be unpredictable, I tend to plan out my future and do things that lead to a chain of events , so I have some predictability. I'm quite forgetful, possibly because I'm always so in my head, that I tune out my surroundings. I try to prevent this, but I don't think there's a cure for being A complete day dreamer.
    It's getting long. I hope I didn't scare anyone away. Come one, come all, help fill this deep void of unknowingness.
    Hello.


    I'm either 4w3, or 3w4. They are both terrific anyways.

    Still questioning my MBTI.


    I don't want to fit in to any box, and I don't want live ordinarily! I want to break people's expectations and live A life with A limitless vision.

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    Dunno. You seem hard to type. I would guess along the lines of enneagram type 4w3. Nice to meet you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by meowington View Post
    Dunno. You seem hard to type. I would guess along the lines of enneagram type 4w3. Nice to meet you.

    Okay. thanks! Nice to meet you, too.
    Hello.


    I'm either 4w3, or 3w4. They are both terrific anyways.

    Still questioning my MBTI.


    I don't want to fit in to any box, and I don't want live ordinarily! I want to break people's expectations and live A life with A limitless vision.

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    well i know your definitely an N (thinking about the future, ideas, theories, originality, "being in your head and tuning out your surroundings" and "being a complete dreamer"). Also indicative of an intuitive is our tendency to hyperbolize or "dramatize" our speech; notice how you used the word love instead of like, and said "being a complete dreamer" instead of just a dreamer or kind of or sometimes. So now that we know your an intuitive, its deciding whether its introverted or extroverted intuition. I'm leaning towards Ni, because of the chameleon changing persona thing and the being told your wise or mature beyond your years.
    I also got strong extroverted feeling (Fe), because of the " they might not feel as welcome" and " i hope i don't scare anyone away" comments, which shows you are aware and care about how other's are or might be feeling. so if your using Fe and Ni, your an ENFJ =) read up on that type as much as you can, especially the individual functions and see if it fits. if not, try INFJ =), we have all the same functions, just a bit of a different order. I hope i helped

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    Yess, another response!

    Thank you, you did help a lot.
    Hello.


    I'm either 4w3, or 3w4. They are both terrific anyways.

    Still questioning my MBTI.


    I don't want to fit in to any box, and I don't want live ordinarily! I want to break people's expectations and live A life with A limitless vision.

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    You sound a lot like my 20 year old ENFJ son.

    Welcome to the forum.

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    Quote Originally Posted by INTJMom View Post
    You sound a lot like my 20 year old ENFJ son.

    Welcome to the forum.
    Ah, thank you! I'm thinking INFJ right now, simply because I enjoy being alone more than being with people. :3
    Hello.


    I'm either 4w3, or 3w4. They are both terrific anyways.

    Still questioning my MBTI.


    I don't want to fit in to any box, and I don't want live ordinarily! I want to break people's expectations and live A life with A limitless vision.

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    INFJ

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    Quote Originally Posted by collierm48 View Post
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    Ye, Okay. Thank you.
    Hello.


    I'm either 4w3, or 3w4. They are both terrific anyways.

    Still questioning my MBTI.


    I don't want to fit in to any box, and I don't want live ordinarily! I want to break people's expectations and live A life with A limitless vision.

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    Quote Originally Posted by HeartBreaker View Post
    Sorry, I think I dramatized the title a bit..


    Anyways, i'm not quite sure what to display for you, my audience, that will capture your interest. But I appreciate help.

    Some people gave me an idea, possibilities of my type, on the welcoming thread I created which has fueled my desire to learn more.

    So I am just gonna write down some things about "who I am," because the typical questionnaire is bland and unoriginal.


    - I like changing my persona for different people, because I like to see their reactions. I know who I am, but I love playing different roles.

    - I'm competitive.. not in an annoying over bearing way, but I also enjoy proving that I am not the average person and that I can be quite impressive. Also, it's A nice way to pass time.

    - I am cynical of people, because I have seen how cruel people can be. But I don't tend to show most that side of me, or else they might not feel as welcome

    - I used to think I didn't like being the center of attention.. But now, I do! Like I said, I have this thing where I feel like I'm a performer, and others are my audience.

    - I'm not sure if this is relevant to my personality type, but pretty much almost everyone I have met who has known me for A bit, has always told me I'm, "Extremely mature and ahead of other people my age."

    Which I love, because I don't want to be like anyone else!

    - Whenever I'm with others, I tend to be the one that always sticks out.. naturally. In a group of loud people, I'm the calm one. In a group of quiet people, I'm the loud one. This isn't intentional, I don't try..

    - When I see A persona in someone that captures my interest, instead of adoring that person, I try and use their persona in my own interesting way.

    - I don't want to like someone else more than they like me. That would make me too vulnerable, which would destroy my balance..

    - Naturally, I'm an "honest" person. Sometimes too honest, and someone else always tells me, "Why did you DO that?!"
    Lies won't help people progress...

    - I also love..(Wow, the whole "love" word is being used a lot,) creating new things. Ideas, items, theories on how to solve things. In an original way, or course,

    - While I do like being impressive, if someone does not like me, I won't care at all. I already know they are missing out so it isn't really my problem. I'm not going to go out of the way to impress, and I usually don't have to try that hard to be seen as different.

    At my core, I'm actually very shy. I think I'm different, and I can easily start thinking about that in a pessimistic manner. I enjoy being smart and try hard to get praise from teachers, and it works.
    I think about my future quite A bit, and while it may be unpredictable, I tend to plan out my future and do things that lead to a chain of events , so I have some predictability. I'm quite forgetful, possibly because I'm always so in my head, that I tune out my surroundings. I try to prevent this, but I don't think there's a cure for being A complete day dreamer.
    It's getting long. I hope I didn't scare anyone away. Come one, come all, help fill this deep void of unknowingness.
    ENFJ

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