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    Hey Guys,

    So I am a little confused with what my type may be.

    I am certainly on the quiet side around people I don't know well. But in saying that, I do have some slight social anxiety. I do prefer to hang out with people more than be alone though. If I could have it the way I wanted, I'd be socialising all the time. It's just that, I am not impressed by many people I meet lol. This is not to say that I don't want to know people though. It's more my pickiness and anxiety that hold me back.

    I am for sure intuitive. My intuition is mostly used in figuring people out and their relationships with others and observing group dynamics. I often predict and see things, well before others in my group. I have a hard time tolerating people who are not authentic or are the snakey types and will take it upon myself to expose them. I have a hard time pinning down exactly how I know what their true motivations are though. I don't use my intuition on the larger humanity or world scale though. I do not think about the destiny of mankind etc. I think about the future of relationships often. But not the day to day future.

    I do spend a lot of time thinking inwardly about my flaws and weaknesses and how I can improve myself. I always have this feeling that I am a much bigger person hidden underneath fears and am constantly thinking about how I can liberate myself lol.

    I am always daydreaming, even when in company lol. I am not hyperactive and am kinda lazy. I would say I am a procrastinator. I am often seeking out stimulating experiences. Sometimes when I am around people, I feel a little frustrated inside, cause it's not rowdy enough. I love loud pubs, where I can chat with people in a buzzing atmosphere. That's the kinda place where I come alive. I am usually hesitant to offend people, unless I decide I really don't like them. Then I can be very blunt. I am not very good at pretending to like people. I am not even good at politely laughing at jokes that are not funny. I suck at this.

    I do have my views and beliefs, but I do not hold them in such high regard that I am unwilling to interpret information which is against those views. I do not feel I stick to them as strongly as INFP's are described to do.

    I am very emotional and I feel my emotions are focused more in than out. I do find it very helpful to speak about my emotions and thoughts with others and the reason I hold back from this, is more because I feel it would be awkward or inappropriate rather than I want to withhold myself or am scared of people knowing me.

    I also have a strong dislike of conflict, but when it comes to close relationships, speaking my mind and being heard is more important to me than avoiding an argument. On the social side of things though, I am a bit more hesitant, because I kinda fear coming off as a bitch or something. Of course, if I am pushed too far, I no longer care about that lol.

    Anyway, I edited this because it was too long before and it's still a bit long. Gah. All info seems important to me lol. Any ideas on type would be very helpful. Cheers guys
    Last edited by misometric; 04-02-2014 at 08:17 AM. Reason: Too long!
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    Quote Originally Posted by misometric View Post
    I am always daydreaming, even when in company lol. I am not hyperactive and am kinda lazy. I would say I am a procrastinator. I am often seeking out stimulating experiences. Sometimes when I am around people, I feel a little frustrated inside, cause it's not rowdy enough. I love loud pubs, where I can chat with people in a buzzing atmosphere. That's the kinda place where I come alive. I am usually hesitant to offend people, unless I decide I really don't like them. Then I can be very blunt. I am not very good at pretending to like people. I am not even good at politely laughing at jokes that are not funny. I suck at this.

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    you strike me as an ENFP...check out some ENFP see if you relate

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    My impression from reading this was ExFJ. I think ExFx is pretty clear though.
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