So I've thought I was a INFP 9w1 sp/so for some time, until just recently when I thought about reevaluating this, because I didn't spend as much thought on it as I maybe should have.
I did that "double check" test in the sticky thread and came to the conclusion that I could either be an INFP, or an INTP.
The thing was that I didn't really know if I was affilitative or pragmatic.
I've also been quite sure that I am a 9w1, so I guess I'll stick to that. But what I'm not as sure about are what my instinctual variants are.
I read a thread about different combinations of instinctual variants for the type 9 and I noticed that at least 3 of them explained me as a person pretty well.
So what I was hoping for was for someone to maybe ask some questions (or something else that also works) whether I'm an INFP or an INTP, what instinctual variants I have and maybe even some to determine if I really am a 9w1 or if I'm completely lost.
Thank you in advance
PS: I don't think just linking some texts explaining differences etc would work for me, since I always seem to get very undecisive and sort of feel like I am a bit of both, and since it's just a text I can't really bounce my thoughts on it with someone to truly determine what I am.
PPS: Maybe I should include a short text describing myself.
I have a good amounts of friends, but not really any really close friends, ie to everyone I'm just a "second hand" friend.
I don't know why that is, maybe it's because I'm not very talkative. I often perceive myself as a weird and boring individual who at times are kind of awkward maybe.
I always lend a hand when somebody need it, even if it's a complete stranger. I'm also very generous when I can, and rarely turn down requests. When I feel I really can't be generous (maybe because I don't have much left etc) I do have the strength to say no but that most often leads to me feeling bad.
As said before I'm not so talkative. I basically only speak when I'm spoken to.
And well, I can't think of more things to describe myself right now.