So, having recently ascertained my MBTI type, I have decided to attack Ennegram with my curiosity!
I attempted this questionnaire because of its effective brevity.
Which of these do you consider your biggest fear?
Being cut off (from everything)
Being held back from doing something, no freedom
Being betrayed by those you trust
Being emotionally vulnerable (or physically)
Being insignificant and ordinary
Being incapable, mentally or physically
Being unimportant, being worthless
Being imperfect, flawed or corrupt
2, 5, 6, 7 (Mostly 2 and 5, 7 is also a bummer).
If being cut off implies missing out, then yes, 1 to a certain extent.
Which of these do you want the most?
To be valuable and important
To feel appreciated and loved
To be unique and individual
To be ethical and have integrity
To be supported and guided
To be in a peaceful frame of mind and life
To be protected
To be competent and capable
To be content and happy with what you have
1, 2 (if you change it to "admired and praised"), 3, 9.
Here, I'm conflicted between all of them. I want to be an important figure in this world that is admired and appreciated by many. But I also want to maximize the amount of fun in my life and be unique, not ordinary and boring.