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    Quote Originally Posted by Chanaynay View Post
    NOW WITH VIDEO

    God I need my eyebrows waxed.



    @EJCC @skylights @Vetani @Elfboy @Starry @Marmotini @Wind-Up Rex @Riva @Lady X @nicolita @Saturned @Ism - I think that's everyone? Hopefully this works! Also I hope I usually don't sound this nasal. Or deep-voiced. I think my voice gets lower when I have a lot to say. Oh man @Devi I may have forgotten to mention you but my kisses go out to you as well.

    Oh, and @RaptorWizard asked for this originally right? Or I told you I'd do this? Anyway I'm mentioning you as well so.
    @Stansmith @Saudade @The Great One maybe you can help as well?

    Edit: JFC I never look at the camera. I always look up when I'm thinking about stuff. Or maybe the laptop is just too low. Idk. Also here's a pic of me so you can see that my hair doesn't look as stupid from face-to-face view:



    With my ENFJ 2w3 momma.
    I just realized I never got back to this thread after the mention um... awhile ago.

    God, you are so adorable! and your video reminded me of one I attempted to make last year wherein I also never looked at the camera because I always get this kind of airy look up and awayness to my gaze. and it cracked me up how much you move around.

    what struck me most of all was how genuine you are - I absolutely related to the part where you explained how you weren't trying to be fake Ne and then made the comment about now you probably come off as fake... ha! like you snatched that out of my brain . Oh and the fears part where you thought it meant phobias... so cute :3.

    I think too how funny it is to watch Ne when it's just running by itself. It is always so much easier to deal with when you have someone else to bounce off of. (ALSO YOU HAVE A BUNNY ON YOUR WALL!! You didn't know me back then but I used to be a bunny.) Loved the part where you took a moment to furiously type and then there is that airy "where was I?" hardcore heart.

    You're definitely ENFP... no question about that at all. And I 100% agree on the SO/SXness and I think your ultimate decision that you are 7w6 first is spot on. (you're explanation of things on the I-E has made me seriously question my own status on that bar. )

    And here is something I grabbed from personalitycafe about the 279 grouping of tritypes in case you haven't seen it:

    279 Peacemaker Archetype

    279

    As a nine, I hate conflict. It's unbearbale when someone gives me the silent treatment, is angry or withdraws. Especially if I had a loving friendship before and when it hugely matters to me. I really like to bring things in the open and get things resolved. Talk things through. See where it went wrong. I do this without criticism. Though when somebody has hurt me and things have bottled up for a long time I can be very critical, precise and to the point. That's before a conversation to get things resolved where I couldn't control my outburst. Because it unsettles me and makes me sad. Then I can move forward again. When I try to discuss the situation I keep it light. Do not want to feel pain. I want things to be on the same level and harmonious as before and we do not need to delve deep, no need to dwell on the negatives. And let's forget about it. I will acknowledge my errors and empathise, even when I sometimes know I do this more then I should. I think the above is my 7 tritype. I think 4 is not the other tritype as I do not feel envious. It's not a passion or drive so to speak. Any input would be appreciated, thanks.

    Have you ever taken the enneacards test on enneagram.net? It will help you identify your heart center, or at least give you somewhere to start.

    From what you've described above I would guess you had 2 in the heart center, with two positive outlook types (2 and 7) and the 9 there is a need to keep things positive, a driving need almost or else it is unbearable. The criticality and bottling up phenomena could be due to the 9 in charge, and the 1 wing, as well as the social subtype who all are prone to a sort of indignant, critical anger.

    Here's what Katherine wrote:

    If you are a 279, you are caring, innovative and accepting. You want to be helpful, upbeat and peaceful. You are very kind and tend to see the best in others, focusing on easy and comfortable ways of relating. You hate conflict and/or strife and use your sense of humor to smooth out difficulties.

    Your life mission is to create and promote smooth and harmonic ways to handle conflict. A true peacemaker, you are happiest when you can ease tension and help others get along with one another.

    You can be so identified with keeping life free of conflict and negativity that you may turn a blind eye to conflicts that need to be managed as opportunities for change.

    *Most optimistic tritypes-279, 729, 927
    279...positive

    This tritype [927] is the most identified with seeing themselves as peaceful. More than any other tritype, they need peace and positive relating to experience a sense of being... so are extremely uncomfortable with negativity in relationships. The 479 doesn't like it but expects it. It also brings the 937 tritype which is the true ambassador of goodwill.

    If you have the sexual instinct as dominant you could easily identify with 974. The 972 is less ethereal and more focused on being positive. The 974 knows that they feel unhappy, they are more inclined to hide so that they will not be rejected for being negative.

    The super positive types 279 and 379, report that they try to get thru grief as quickly as possible, especially if self-pres.

    Yes, there is more than one positive Tritype. The super positive Tritypes are the 279, the 379. The 279 is a the Tritype that wants comfortable, easy relating. The 2 brings a greater emphasis on people.This is the 2ish caring, people oriented 7 or 9. The 379 is even more upbeat and positive. The 3 brings more of an emphasis on achievements. For example this is the professional, 3ish 9 or 7.

    All of the 79 combinations are somewhat positive. The 279 is focused on being pleasant. The 379 the most positive. The 479 Is positive outwardly but doesn't always feel it.

    2-7-9 - The Positivist

    Characterized by unbridled optimism. They don't allow anything to get them down, and they love to enjoy themselves by surrounding themselves with great company and fun atmospheres. They may be a bit unrealistic however.

    a person could be the 927 or "The Peacemaker" Tritype, and after utilizing the dominant Type 9 strategies the person may move to their lines of connection (Type 3 and Type 7) as well as to their possible wings (Type 1 and Type 8). However, if these connections are not effective for the person, they may move to Type 2 and become more helpful, effusive and relational, and then move subsequently to Type 7 to utilize positive reframing, escapism or future planning in order to achieve desirable results.

    From what you've described above I would guess you had 2 in the heart center, with two positive outlook types (2 and 7) and the 9 there is a need to keep things positive, a driving need almost or else it is unbearable. The criticality and bottling up phenomena could be due to the 9 in charge, and the 1 wing, as well as the social subtype who all are prone to a sort of indignant, critical anger.

    Trying to keep a positive outlook at all times. (9-2-7)

    2-9s - They avoid admitting that they have a (completely) negative image (and avoid anything that may lead to such a state). They're ultimate fear is that they have a completely "black" image and are unable to escape it. They enter a strong state of denial when this occurs. This isn't necessarily because of the Two side, but much rather because the 9 side can't handle such a reality and thus this kind of Two is more likely to withdraw into a more "positive" perspective of themselves. It's much nicer and much more comforting that way.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Saturned View Post
    I just realized I never got back to this thread after the mention um... awhile ago.

    God, you are so adorable! and your video reminded me of one I attempted to make last year wherein I also never looked at the camera because I always get this kind of airy look up and awayness to my gaze. and it cracked me up how much you move around.
    Such a shame though because I'd say my good side is more when you're looking down at me than looking up to me. Maybe this is another reason why I prefer tall guys.

    what struck me most of all was how genuine you are - I absolutely related to the part where you explained how you weren't trying to be fake Ne and then made the comment about now you probably come off as fake... ha! like you snatched that out of my brain . Oh and the fears part where you thought it meant phobias... so cute :3.
    I always have to make sure. Being called fake or saying something I say sounds contrived is probably the one of the easiest ways to push my buttons.

    I think too how funny it is to watch Ne when it's just running by itself. It is always so much easier to deal with when you have someone else to bounce off of. (ALSO YOU HAVE A BUNNY ON YOUR WALL!! You didn't know me back then but I used to be a bunny.) Loved the part where you took a moment to furiously type and then there is that airy "where was I?" hardcore heart.
    It's an Alice in Wonderland, I love it. The bunny was one of my favorite parts about it. The quote on it says "I can't explain myself because I'm not myself, you see?" But hmm, maybe I should watch your video too then! Because watching myself on video it's hard to call it Ne in action or Fi in action, I just see me even though I'm aware of the fact that I'm using both. Seeing more Ne in action would be fun.

    You're definitely ENFP... no question about that at all. And I 100% agree on the SO/SXness and I think your ultimate decision that you are 7w6 first is spot on. (you're explanation of things on the I-E has made me seriously question my own status on that bar. )
    How so??

    And here is something I grabbed from personalitycafe about the 279 grouping of tritypes in case you haven't seen it:
    I've read it, but thank you for posting it here since I'd probably be too lazy to go out and find it again.
    7w6 - 2w3 - 8w7 sx/so


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    Quote Originally Posted by Chanaynay View Post
    Such a shame though because I'd say my good side is more when you're looking down at me than looking up to me. Maybe this is another reason why I prefer tall guys.
    Tall men =

    Whatever side you show, you're just plain adorable and handsome all wrapped into one.

    How so??
    The part where you said you don't talk if you are bored by the other people around you. I still think I am stuck in between INFP and ENFP as I am not entirely one sans the other. But hearing you, the king of extroversion, state how and when you are more introverted made a lot of sense to me.

    I find I am a bit black and white on extraversion. If I am excited by someone I am happyBBQYAY Ne me. But if I am bored by them then I literally cannot think of anything to say to save my life and I just sit there in silence.

    But I don't require attention to be on me, and I don't intentionally seek it out. However, if I get it and it's because I am all sparkly unicorn me, then I love it and will ham it up a bit.

    - Who knows -

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    @Saturned

    We love your sparkly unicorny ambiversion.

    /is feeling gushy today
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    Quote Originally Posted by EJCC View Post
    @Saturned

    We love your sparkly unicorny ambiversion.

    /is feeling gushy today
    Awww

    It's the side effect of drinking the NFP koolaid.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Saturned View Post
    Awww

    It's the side effect of drinking the NFP koolaid.


    I have no idea what you're talking about.
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    Quote Originally Posted by EJCC View Post


    I have no idea what you're talking about.
    Oh, I am sure you don't.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Saturned View Post
    Oh, I am sure you don't.
    NOPE
    NO I DON'T

    *hides in STJ Fortress of Te*





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    Quote Originally Posted by Saturned View Post
    The part where you said you don't talk if you are bored by the other people around you. I still think I am stuck in between INFP and ENFP as I am not entirely one sans the other. But hearing you, the king of extroversion, state how and when you are more introverted made a lot of sense to me.

    I find I am a bit black and white on extraversion. If I am excited by someone I am happyBBQYAY Ne me. But if I am bored by them then I literally cannot think of anything to say to save my life and I just sit there in silence.

    But I don't require attention to be on me, and I don't intentionally seek it out. However, if I get it and it's because I am all sparkly unicorn me, then I love it and will ham it up a bit.

    - Who knows -
    Oooh, I see what you mean. Yeah you've always seemed like a different sort of NFP to me. Your posts reek of Fi when it comes to things you consider serious but when you're communicating with other people you like you're all Ne bouncy. That said, being INFP, 4 (especially with the 5 wing), and sx/sp theoretically seems like it would make for a far more withdrawn person than you seem to be. Or maybe I'm just really excited about you possibly being one of my own kind. If you had me take a wild guess right now I'd say ENFP but that's just me - you know yourself better than anyone else here after all. Plus I'm assuming Ne, due to its extroverted nature, is one of your main means of communicating with others (that's definitely how I interact with others) and the Fi usually only comes out when under fire or when the discussion starts to get important and since all of times we've interacted have been really silly and fun I could be overestimating your Ne usage. Eh, like I said it's up to you! You should just change your type to CUTE - it especially fits with your new avatar.

    Also LOL @ "the king of extroversion." I think that will be my new user title. Makes me wonder how people in the real world would peg me regarding type. I think most would dub me INFP in the classroom since I'm usually very quiet and you can tell when interacting with me whether I tolerate you or not. *flashbacks to how many times I would not respond to this one guy or give him the eye-roll AND YET HE STILL WOULDN'T TAKE THE HINT* Maybe in the future we could team up and both change our titles to match too. Like "Nico's Kidnapper #1" and "Nico's Kidnapper #2."
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    I'm bringing it back.
    @Honor @EJCC @Elfboy @Nights and Days and other people I'm too lazy to mention, feel free to have at it.

    /will make another video eventually
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