Hi people! I wrote a thread like this once before and most of the people typed me as INFP, after reading some descriptions of types and cognitive functions I decided that the best fit for me is an ENFP, but now I have some serious doubts about it and I am lost. It seems like ENFP is too bubly, nice, optimistic and friendly to everyone and I am totaly the right oppisite of this description, but I have no clue which other type could be a better fit for me . Please can you read my description of myself really from begging to end and after it, give me some feedback? I'd be really happy.
I am the one who can party the whole week and I love it. I love to be careless and feel no responsibilities. Around my friends I am very open, I am for any crazy idea, and love to talk about interesting topics and I am fun. But my humor can be pretty sarcastic, cynical, and sometimes when I am in the mood I can be even hurtful to others, without caring about it, so not everyone is into my style of a humor. I'd say I sometimes drink too much, I tend to act as a boy and I really miss this sense of women's softness, or being tender. I don't like hugs, or debates about emotions. Even though I am woman and most of my friends are women too, I hate theese stereotypical women, with all thier styles and relationship issues I am totaly not interessted in topics like that. I like to wear leaky jeans, band's t-shirts, hippie clothes, but I am not very much into colors, I am mostly dressed in black or some darker colors. My topics of interesstes are mainly music, art, or philoshophy. I love when the debat makes you think, or I love to talk about ideas and meaning of everything. I love to know why and how things work and my mind is pretty analytical, BUT not logical . My thinking is also really crytical, I like to know facts and than talk about them and think about all of the possibilities. I am always open to new idea, or way of thinking, even though about things I believe in I tend to be pretty stubborn and it's hard for me to admit I am wrong. When I argue with someone I sometimes can be agressive and mean, and it's hard for me to hold my temper. Sometimes I do things too spontaneously, without thinking about them, or their consequences.
Around stranges I am very shy. I don't make new friends very easily. I am really a private person, reserved and cold to ones I don't know very well. I don't trust others easily.
When I am alone I love to write. I love to be abstract and metaphorical and even though I suck at arts, that needs manual work, your hands,or body like painting, or dancing I am pretty good with expresing my self with writteing and music. I write a lot of poems and fantasy stories and I play guitar. My biggest passion is singing, it's the thing that makes me really happy and always cheers me up. The true is I can't be alone for long, because I can get depressed very easily. I had some serious issues with depression and still I often feel lonely, sometimes even when I am around others. I tend to be very negativistic and have somehow this dark view on the world. I am attracted to darkness, dirty, lonely and broken things.
I sometimes have theese mood swings and have some issues with emotional unstabillity. At one moment I am the heppiest person in the world and a while after that I am deep down in depression with no meaning of life. I am oversensitive on criticism, totaly deppended on my image even though I am so unsure about my self-image in general. I always search for my true self, true personality and true stlye. I'd say I have low self confidance and that's the main reason why I am so shy around stranges. But I am great with one on one conversation, I'd say my thinking is bright and smart and I can learn very easily, I've been always good in languages and social science. But I am always the theorist, practice is not my strong side.
So...what are your guesses? :-)