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    Quote Originally Posted by Aleda View Post
    Okay I'm rather confused about my type. I seem to have strong Fi for an ENTJ considering it's my inferior function and I'm 14 years old. But then, with the things I've gone through in life (abusive parents, depression to the point of being suicidal, bullying, living in a backwards smalltown, etc.) maybe my development has accelerated? There are no articles or threads about how those events could affect your type so I'm creating a thread.

    E
    -I get energized by conversations
    -I always carry a conversation.
    -I hate bad conversationalists with a passion.
    -I don't really have a filter, I say whatever's on my mind
    -I'm not too reflective
    -A conversation a day keeps the depression away
    I
    -I was painfully shy when I was young.
    -I'm always the quietest person in class (I'm kind of a misanthrope)
    -In middle school, I blossomed and became waaay more people-oriented, that could be my auxiliary developing at this age

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    -I can slightly detail oriented
    -I have Se oriented hobbies
    -I'm a perfectionist who notices every detail in my projects
    N
    -I'm incredibly oblivious to my external environment
    -I daydream constantly
    -I'm very future oriented, I live for lifelong plans
    -I find reality really limiting
    -I find the future exciting.

    F
    -I try not to invalidate others feelings
    -I abide by my moral rules constantly, there are no excuses
    -I try not to be unnecessarily offensive
    -I can't resist helping others no matter how stressed out or tired I am
    -I play therapist a lot and I like to listen to others
    -I love listening to other people's stories and getting to know them
    -Nothing gets on my nerves more than people who treat someone else's feelings as less than the truth
    -I try to be as accepting as possible
    T
    -When I'm bored with a relationship, I tend to create conflict for the fun of it
    -I don't shy away from arguments/debates
    -I find conflict thrilling
    -I end relationships as soon as I suspect that someone isn't respecting me and I don't look back-Neither T or F. It means you have boundaries.
    -I'm very competitive- Neither T or F e3 could be part of it
    -I need to master subjects and I love to learn- Neither T or F
    -I had a problem in middle school with offending everybody either accidentally or on purpose- could be either, kids are obnoxious that way.
    -When I was younger, I found it fun to piss people off to get reactions
    -I used to be awkward when making friends- neither T or F
    -I compartmentalize my feelings in order to get things done
    -My accomplishments and abilities define me.- e3
    -I'm a mostly apathetic person
    -When I was younger, I used to be seriously aggressive-EJ. Lol

    P
    -I have trouble making decisions because I want to make the best possible decision.
    J
    -I hate indecisive people
    -I want to make decisions right away
    -I have to be productive at all times
    -When I was 12, I felt very uncomfortable because I didn't have my entire life mapped out
    -I have a lot of planning journals and I find long range planning really energizing.
    I took some notes.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Glycerine View Post
    Fe is all about the interpersonal considerations and how one's actions and words/reactions may or may not affect others and how their actions and words/reactions may or may not affect you. Because of this, some may be highly conflict avoidant and live for group harmony but others can be highly manipulative and ruthless. However, most aren't on either extreme. Social protocol may be used as a guideline but Fe users aren't typically drones to them. You can have several Fe doms in a room but all of them disagree on what to focus on/best course of action because each will have a different set of values.

    Example from your OP: A person is disrespecting me. I will consider why they might be doing that, how valuable/relevant the relationship is to me, cost/benefit of the relationship. If it is worth it for me, I will try to work on it with the other person. If not, I won't bother and will door slam them and won't care about them.
    Hmm I see. I do identify with that but I'm also a type 3 sx/so which might come into play. I do the same too.

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    Regardless of your type, I did relate to a good chunk of your OP but I will never be as driven as you. Lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Glycerine View Post
    I took some notes.
    Thanks! Would an Fe dom have a problem with offending people so much though?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Glycerine View Post
    Regardless of your type, I did relate to a good chunk of your OP but I will never be as driven as you. Lol
    Lol yay. Haha thanks

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aleda View Post
    Thanks! Would an Fe dom have a problem with offending people so much though?
    Not necessarily. if they aren't aware about how they were coming off, or just truly didn't care, or that isn't part of their goal or values, Fe doms can be quite offensive and aggressive. Just because one is concerned about social nuances, it doesn't mean that they are aware of how they are coming off or are willing to respect them.

    Plus with me, I was abused a little as a kid so I had (still occasionally have) a rebellious, anti-authority "screw you" energy where I would do and say to get a rise out of people just for kicks. I am not sure if it is the same with you though. Also kids will be kids.

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    I'd venture to say Fe dom has a real talent for offending folks intentionally, when they feel like it.
    My face is very still unless you're talking about something that interests me. Then I light up like a Christmas tree. Do you become more animated when the subject is close to your heart?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Glycerine View Post
    Not necessarily. if they aren't aware about how they were coming off, or just truly didn't care, or that isn't part of their goal or values, Fe doms can be quite offensive and aggressive. Just because one is concerned about social nuances, it doesn't mean that they are aware of how they are coming off or are willing to respect them.

    Plus with me, I was abused a little as a kid so I had (still occasionally have) a rebellious, anti-authority "screw you" energy where I would do and say to get a rise out of people just for kicks. I am not sure if it is the same with you though. Also kids will be kids.
    Hmm okay, how would that work?

    Oh I see, how did it develop? Hmm somewhat, I hate listening to authority. Like if I want to do something and someone tells me to do it, I don't really want to do that thing anymore.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tiltyred View Post
    I'd venture to say Fe dom has a real talent for offending folks intentionally, when they feel like it.
    My face is very still unless you're talking about something that interests me. Then I light up like a Christmas tree. Do you become more animated when the subject is close to your heart?
    Hmm okay, yeah that would make sense. Yeah I definitely become more animated when I'm passionate about something.

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    If one is extremely outwardly focused and doesn't introspect much, they might not know how they are coming off even if they pride themselves in being socially aware. I have known a few EXFJs like that (also me at certain phases in my life). Also, even if you are fully aware of the cause and effects your actions have on another person (their hot buttons), that doesn't mean the Fe dom will avoid it. Fe doms are humans after all. If they know your hot buttons and want to piss you off, they will most likely do it. In this way, they can easily create conflict. The mean girl queen bee is stereotypically Fe dom.

    I typically hated being controlled or manipulated (or gently prodded) unless I actually really wanted to do something. So sometimes I would do or say whatever I wanted to regardless of how it might have affected the other people. It was never anything major. However, I used to cuss all the time or say inappropriate things just for kicks.

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