- Inherent kind of intensity about others - engaging them, understanding them, seeing them
- Furthest energy from SP (more than sx/so somehow)
- Arguable, but often an inherent sense of sophistication, appreciation of arts and love of the 'cultural conversation'
- Wide, ubiquitous presence, hard to grasp, up-in-the-air, wishy-washy, wide-ranging passion and interest
- Inherently moral, awareness of large social causes taken extremely seriously (sexism, racism, homophobia ...)
- Almost dangerously magnetic charisma, sharp-wit, perfected, elegant social appearance/competence, ability to make everyone relax, often floats from group to group or person to person with grace and ease, feeling close to no-one while others 'feel very close' to them
- Focus on the importance of others in your life: that one friend, your family, that small group of people that experienced such and such with you - rigorous loyalty for such
- Seems to 'relax' among people, not necessarily engaging them just 'being' with them, like being in a hot, calming bath
- Ruthless selectivity within social sphere, inherent kind of social elegance makes for a pickier person
- Love of humanities, law, history, European culture, anything where so/sx can feel a part of the ghostly whispers of thousands of people that have walked the same earth
, may have been writing the same poetry...
- Incredibly sharp
emotional perception and 'people awareness'
, can make spell-binding councillors, life-coaches, etc
- I think the genius behind the Pixar movies is absolutely SO/SX understanding, a kind of light genius that wants to get darker but keeps the kids in mind - America has a much bigger so/sx energy to me, than England and Europe
- Seemingly grounded (or 'salt of the earth' because vision is so 'wide' so can cover all bases. Actually not grounded at all.
- When more stressed
: love of connection can lead to compulsive, impulsive spending, organising trips away with family (the combination of a loved one and a best friend is like taking crystal meth), the type that will splash out on a yacht to give to close knit community without thinking has to go home and re-mortgage the house ... enforced fun
, expensive, personalised events for 'special few'/small community let in by so/sx
- Dependency on small community around
, needs the collective voice to steer
- The social world (i.e. culture, history, media) is A-sexual so, when stressed, the SO/SX can inherent this A-sexual world and struggle to build romantic relationships.
This can be confusing for other people because the intensity of intellectual and emotional connection i.e. friendship, may lend itself to romance but nothing happens
- Stressed and dark SO/SX form many of these borderline connections
- Dupes others into thinking the so/sx is a wise, cultural kind of Gandalf, is a lie