A friend introduced me to MBTI. I took some free tests but I always get different results. Some days ago I learned that it is not about I or E, N or S and so on but about functions. I took my first functional test, but the result was confusing again. A friend said I should do it again when I was depressed, happy or something else.
So I took it again and again and again (depressed, happy, in the morning, in the evening). The only thing what is alwas the same: strong Ni, weak Fe. All the other functions are somewhere in between (good use or limited use, but never the same).
When I read about the functions I always understand Ni (how it works for myself) but I never understand Fe and how it works. The other functions are somewhere in between. I am unsure about it.
Which type could that be? Strong Ni, weak Fe: ENTJ, INTJ? Maybe I should write something about myself. I read a lot of things in this forum, so I try to write as many different things as I could.
My best friend is an ENFJ. She always cries by sad films, feels deeply, is always in love and every douche bag she meets is her prince charming. I am not this way. Sometimes she says I am unemotional but I would disagree. I think I am normal. I never cry in public, true, I cry very rarely by sad movies (maybe 3 in my whole life). But I can get very enthusiastic with ideas, thoughts, projects. And I can get very angry (destroying things, being rude).
I was good in school and I am good in university. I never really failed in any subject. At university I took different classes (ancient languages, philosophy, math, physics, biochemistry, economics, education, etc.). I was unsure what I wanted to be but I was good in everything (maybe because of my high IQ, somewhere between 150 and 160).
Maybe I wanted to be something social (teacher, psychiatrist, physician), maybe something with economics (lawyer, economist), maybe something with sciences (computer scientist, engineer). I worked for free at schools, hospitals, made art, everything. After three years I know I want to be something with science and I study now computer science and philosophy. I like it.
I love studying, reading and writing. I published a bit poetry and short stories. I love walking in nature and cooking (but I do not experiment, I always cook the same), I love discussions. I hate shopping, boring social visits by family.
No one would say I am a people person. I am not shy, I can speak very good in public and free.
Most people tell me later that they thought I am an arrogant person, but then they realized that I am "cool/laconic". Some say I have my own charm (in German we call it brittle charm, is where something like this in English?).
I use a very simple language but I can also speak "academic talk", I am very good in explaining complicated things (math, philosophy) simple so that everyone can understand it. Most people say it is easy and interesting to talk with me.
Most people think that I am a honest person and very direct. But to tell the truth: I tend to lie about certain things. For example: Friend makes a party, I do not want to got, I say I am ill. I do not want to hurt their feelings.
Some examples from the recent past. My friend wrote a perfect short story. She wanted to send it to a contest but was unsure. So she said: I send it, if you send your text too. My text was not ready, so I told her, I would send it but I never did. She is now in the finale round and I am very proud about her.
I lie also about failings. If I was to lazy to catch the bus: My neighbor needed help. If my other text was to bad for a different writing contest: I never send it in. I am bad at failing.
I also tend to manipulate people for their own good. I would not call it manipulation, I try to show them the ideas and thoughts they need to make right decisions. (Leaving abusive boyfriend, change the subject of your studies, new job, etc.) I never say something like: Your boyfriend is a bad person. I say something like: "Why is he doing this? What do you think about this? What was that about?" Most of the times I am successful (my mother has a new job, my boyfriend studies law, my best friend is married to a nice guy).
I also tend to have a strong gut feeling. After a little time I can say why a friendship or relationship will fail. In 9 of 10 cases I am correct.
I do not know what I should write else.
So, what do you think? Does that sound like strong Ni, weak Fe? And which type?