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  • Sp/Sx

    8 44.44%
  • Sx/Sp

    10 55.56%
  • other instinct variant

    1 5.56%
  • 7w6

    7 38.89%
  • 7w8

    5 27.78%
  • 3w4

    2 11.11%
  • other enneagram

    1 5.56%
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  1. #1
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    Default Damnit! I might be an Sx dom!

    I've sworn I was Sp/Sx for the longest time (I'm about 90% sure I'm Sp/Sx, and it's definitely the type I'd like to be because I think it's the best), but I've really been going through a painful transformation recently and realized I had a ton of repressed emotions including
    - feeling old/fear of getting old/feeling like I'm running out of time to find a partner (which is fucking ridiculous. I just turned 21)
    - loneliness (often severe)
    - the fact that I am a total affection whore. in fact, if I had my way, I'd probably spend ~3 hour a day on just snuggling
    - I have a tendency to get attached to people way to quickly, so I've repressed this urge in the past rather than deal with it directly
    - occasional feelings of envy towards people in successful relationships
    - if I care about you, I am a tremendously affectionate person, but I repress the hell out of this because in the past I've seen it as a vulnerability (and it is, being rejected by someone you've shown intense affection to is fucking painful)

    apart from this
    - my communication style is much more intense and expressive than most Sp doms
    - I'm bold, attention seeking and, as you all know, quite a diva
    - I listen to dramatic, passionate music for hours at a time, often listening to the same song over and over again
    - people seem to think women like Madonna, Lady Gaga etc are freaks/extremist but to me they just seem normal. I would totally be that outrageous, fiery and dress that expressively if I had the money
    - I've realized just how much I'm willing to do for love. these past few weeks I've fought urges to go fly out and meet people I'd just met online a week previously (real Sp dom...NOT). if I met a guy, got to know him for awhile, had good chemistry and the circumstances were ideal, I'd have no problem moving in with him in just a couple of weeks
    - ideally I would not think about money at all. I'm thinking about it so much so that when I'm older I can be like "screw it! I don't care!"


    however, I still think I'm Sp/Sx for the following reasons
    - I am an ENFP 7, that by itself is a pretty sexual type
    - I relate to 100% of Riso/Hudson's Sp dom 7 descriptions (though I also related to about 70% of the Sx dom 7 description)
    - I'm fairly introverted and introspective for a 7 (like an Sp/Sx)
    - I tend to put financial matters ahead of everything else
    - I'm sure that, regardless of instinctual variant, the majority of 21 year old, desperat,e twink hungry, homosexual males would probably relate to most of what I just said

    PS: and just for fun, you can vote on my main enneagram type if you think I'm mistyped (I'm pretty set on 7w6, this part is just fun)
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    From one queer to another, girrrrl, you are getting more flamey diva every day . SX instinctual?? Yeah I can see that.
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    Subscribin', because all I know personally is that I'm probably so-last and would like to pay attention to this discussion.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elfboy View Post
    I've sworn I was Sp/Sx for the longest time (I'm about 90% sure I'm Sp/Sx, and it's definitely the type I'd like to be because I think it's the best), but I've really been going through a painful transformation recently and realized I had a ton of repressed emotions including
    - feeling old/fear of getting old/feeling like I'm running out of time to find a partner (which is fucking ridiculous. I just turned 21)
    - loneliness (often severe)
    - the fact that I am a total affection whore. in fact, if I had my way, I'd probably spend ~3 hour a day on just snuggling
    - I have a tendency to get attached to people way to quickly, so I've repressed this urge in the past rather than deal with it directly
    - occasional feelings of envy towards people in successful relationships
    - if I care about you, I am a tremendously affectionate person, but I repress the hell out of this because in the past I've seen it as a vulnerability (and it is, being rejected by someone you've shown intense affection to is fucking painful)

    apart from this
    - my communication style is much more intense and expressive than most Sp doms
    - I'm bold, attention seeking and, as you all know, quite a diva
    - I listen to dramatic, passionate music for hours at a time, often listening to the same song over and over again
    - people seem to think women like Madonna, Lady Gaga etc are freaks/extremist but to me they just seem normal. I would totally be that outrageous, fiery and dress that expressively if I had the money
    - I've realized just how much I'm willing to do for love. these past few weeks I've fought urges to go fly out and meet people I'd just met online a week previously (real Sp dom...NOT). if I met a guy, got to know him for awhile, had good chemistry and the circumstances were ideal, I'd have no problem moving in with him in just a couple of weeks
    - ideally I would not think about money at all. I'm thinking about it so much so that when I'm older I can be like "screw it! I don't care!"


    however, I still think I'm Sp/Sx for the following reasons
    - I am an ENFP 7, that by itself is a pretty sexual type
    - I relate to 100% of Riso/Hudson's Sp dom 7 descriptions (though I also related to about 70% of the Sx dom 7 description)
    - I'm fairly introverted and introspective for a 7 (like an Sp/Sx)
    - I tend to put financial matters ahead of everything else
    - I'm sure that, regardless of instinctual variant, the majority of 21 year old, desperat,e twink hungry, homosexual males would probably relate to most of what I just said

    PS: and just for fun, you can vote on my main enneagram type if you think I'm mistyped (I'm pretty set on 7w6, this part is just fun)
    Have you taken that instinctual variants test? I think it's pretty good for determining variant.


    The main question is: Do you prefer to interact with people and things one-on-one over everything else? Over being part of a group and over your personal space? I can get almost sexual with food, articles of clothing, songs, people, etc. Domino described it best in some thread a year and a half ago or so.....it's just this intensity to connect with someone, or admire something. SP's care less to interact and connect than to be alone.
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    Quote Originally Posted by bologna View Post
    Subscribin', because all I know personally is that I'm probably so-last and would like to pay attention to this discussion.
    you are clearly So/Sx.


    Elf, my av is an Sx/Sp 7w8, do you feel similar with?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Speed Gavroche View Post
    you are clearly So/Sx.
    Yeah, I'll have to consider this one again. The trouble is that descriptions of instinctual stackings of specific types are pretty misleading.

    (I'm not gonna derail Elfboy's thing any further, though; I'll start my own sometime)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Speed Gavroche View Post
    you are clearly So/Sx.
    Elf, my av is an Sx/Sp 7w8, do you feel similar with?
    I relate to 7w6 Sx/Sp and 7w8 Sp/Sx (as you said, I am a gay version of Gambit ). I don't relate to the Sx dom 7w8s very well at all though. they're so much more intense and thrill seeking whereas I am a coward when it comes to that kind of stuff (less now than when I was younger, but still) Sx dom 7w8 is more action hero/thrill seeker/dangerous bad boy.
    Edit: however, in the off chance that I am a 3w4, I am definitely an Sx dom. in fact, I related to the 3w4 Sx/Sp and 3w4 Sx/So videos more than either the 7w6 or 7w8 of any variant (seriously, Madonna, Cher and David Bowie just seem like normal people to me lol)

    @bologna: if you are a 3w4 So/Sx, you're not going to be the typical So/Sx. 3w4s in general have a very Sp/Sx-ish demeanor.
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    the responses in this thread are surprising so far

    in case this helps. here are two videos of me

    ENFP: We put the Fi in Fire
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    5w4>1w9>2w1 Sx/Sp
    SEE-Fi
    Papa Bear
    Motivation: Dark Worker
    Alignment: Chaotic Neutral
    Chibi Seme
    MTG Color: black/red
    Male Archtype: King/Lover
    Sunburst!
    "You are a gay version of Gambit" Speed Gavroche
    "I wish that I could be affected by any hate, but I can't, cuz I just get affected by the bank" Chamillionaire

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    Have you seen the typewatch descriptors for how certain variants are heavier for some people and less so for others.

    I think they have something about how someone can be heavy sx, moderate sx, weak sx within even dominant sx's and so on and so forth.

    http://typewatchenneagram.blogspot.c...ct-ranges.html

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