I'm not sure I like this test... but both of your scores based on an average give potential false negatives, you become E only because of the exceptionally low score on Expressive/Contained. All other point to a mild preference for introversion.
As for the T/F sunscales, I onject, that Reasonable and compassionate shouldn't be in contention, they are not opposites or opposed, such as logic and empathy are not. Picking which adjectives I'd prefer to call my self from those five options, I'd be close to coming out T too... is this a test somewhere? I'm curious to give it a try...
I think it is safe to say both the I/E and T/F preference is very mild. I still think you may have a personal desire to call yourself ET which could, in it self, be indicative of your preference.
I have to say to after reading about how you met your wife, and implictly about your obviously deep felt religous beliefs I think INFP is probably the closest fit. This is of course marked by personal bias, but every experience I've had with ENTPs leds me to dangerous generalisations, but none of them had anything that even remotely looked like a faith or belief system in anything. Implict in your description of deciding to marry is a sudden and deep contection made quickly. ALso your liking of Fe, again in my experience most ENTPs felt strong Fe in their partners, was smothering, fussy and unactractive, expecially if the partner wanted that to be recipricated in some token fashion.