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    Oops. Come to think of it, I was having a conversation with my friend today, and I realized that I do tend to get intuitive feelings about other people that I can't explain, I sort of just "know".
    We were typing the members of our favorite band, and I would pin them as having a certain function without being able to give real examples as to why I placed them as that. I'm not sure if that's intuitiveness or just me BSing myself.

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    You seem like an ENFJ. Definitely an extraverted feeler.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aleda View Post
    You seem like an ENFJ. Definitely an extraverted feeler.
    Can you explain why?

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    Quote Originally Posted by UniqueMixture View Post
    Are you male or female? What's the dating/relationship history like? How do you feel about politics?

    Preliminary thoughts estj to be honest
    Sometimes, honesty is not the best policy.

    I call her type ESFP, followed by ESFJ and then ISFP, in order of strength.
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    I highly doubt ENFJ.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Redbone View Post
    How are you with money?
    That's an important question. Seriously.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Title View Post
    Thanks for your input. I can definitely see many ESFJ traits in myself, although I'm not really one for following rules that I don't agree with
    Personal sense of values. Fi.

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    and I like abstract things in forms of art and music...but ESFJ seems like a pretty likely type for myself.
    Art and music aren't necessarily abstract, but they can be strong sensory attractors either way. Se.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mal+ View Post
    Sometimes, honesty is not the best policy.

    I call her type ESFP, followed by ESFJ and then ISFP, in order of strength.
    Quote Originally Posted by Mal+ View Post
    Personal sense of values. Fi.

    Art and music aren't necessarily abstract, but they can be strong sensory attractors either way. Se.
    But how am I ESFP instead of ESFJ?
    I put off tasks, sure, and I tend to be messy. But I much prefer an organized environment, I plan my actions before I do them, I complete tasks by splitting them up into segments and taking it one at a time (I'm an awful multitasker).

    Ugh, this typing thing is exhausting...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Title View Post
    Can you explain why?
    You mention understanding everyone's point of view and being empathetic. In my experience, ESFx's tend to have a bit more trouble understanding others and reading people.

    Extroversion

    "I can't handle being alone for more than short amounts of time because I'm afraid I'll lose control of my calmness and there won't be anyone I'll be able to talk to about it."

    Feeling

    "I'm opinionated, but I will alter what I say to a person based on who I'm talking to, as I tend to avoid conflict."

    "I have a great deal of empathy. I literally care about everyone, whether I like them as a person or not." Feelers tend to be more empathetic

    Judging

    "I like to have a clear idea of what I'm going to do before I do it. Although I'm not awful at improvisation, I feel a lot better when I have at least some kind of plan."

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aleda View Post
    You mention understanding everyone's point of view and being empathetic. In my experience, ESFx's tend to have a bit more trouble understanding others and reading people.

    Extroversion

    "I can't handle being alone for more than short amounts of time because I'm afraid I'll lose control of my calmness and there won't be anyone I'll be able to talk to about it."

    Feeling

    "I'm opinionated, but I will alter what I say to a person based on who I'm talking to, as I tend to avoid conflict."

    "I have a great deal of empathy. I literally care about everyone, whether I like them as a person or not." Feelers tend to be more empathetic

    Judging

    "I like to have a clear idea of what I'm going to do before I do it. Although I'm not awful at improvisation, I feel a lot better when I have at least some kind of plan."
    Alright, fair enough...but where is the intuitive coming from? Aside from ESFx's having difficulty understanding people. Do I have a lot of intuitive traits?

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