It's not like I wouldn't feel close to them if I wasn't like them. I don't obligate myself to think or force anything to do it. The main thing is that the values of my family just match, naturally, with mine. That's what I internalized.
As well, it doesn't mean that I do not accept people who are different from me. Contrariwise, I'm fairly tolerant, my friends are not like me, in values, characteristics etc. And I really don't like closed-minded people. I'm really accepting of the values of others, but it won't change mine. And I won't push my values on others too. And I use it the help people a lot. To find a way of themselves. This way I have good relations with people that are totally different from me.
You sounded like you thought that I was a intolerant person just because I have this characteristic. What is totally different from reality.