Hi everyone! First, sorry for my English. My native language is French.
So yeah, I always type as INTJ and the description quite fits, except for the part about how one of INTJ's important trait is their self-confidence and that they are are one of the most confident types. I was wandering if an INTJ could be greatly insecure? For my part, I am quite confident in my areas of expertise but that's it. I am really hard on myself, have a tendency to blame myself for everything. I am always convinced the people I care about are going to reject me or leave me because I'm too stiff, cold, detached, awkward. I'm hypersensitive to any signs of rejection, real or not, altough I never react to these signs. I don't do anything about them, don't confront the people who showed them, because I know this is totally irrational. And descriptions always say INTJ are really independent and don't care about what people think of them. This is again partially true. I'm really independent, I never ask for help, I always try to get things done by myself and I really don't care about what people I don't know or that I don't respect think of me, but I'm really sensitive to criticisms from the people I care about. Even though I know this is stupid to be so hurt by this. So, what's your thoughts?