Thanks! ISXP it is, and I gave some thought for the ISFP. She isn't more T when withdrawn in some public situations, she's just less of everything But but but she seems very much influenced by her feelings, as evidenced today and yesterday .. but so were I. It's difficult to find out how a T is influenced by feelings and F by rationality.
I shouldn't have been so direct so as to describe her T/F preference, as that's exactly the thing I'm trying to determine. I'm bringing an error to this judgment. OK. So I should describe observations instead.
I'm thinking if I've already decided her as F or T, but I haven't