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    Quote Originally Posted by Saturned View Post
    I feel like ISTPs have this gooey secret Fe that is kind of like secret Fi. You just have to tap into it with the right tools. Hmm... you should practice on @Randomnity or @jixmixfix to get some test runs in...

    P.S. I did a trial run with jix.... Pro Tip: Be willing to buy him dinner or he won't commit.
    Test run? pshhhh nice try though . The only thing I can say about Fe is that I tend to really appreciate when people do nice things for me truth is no one really seems to care about our feelings very much. and I'll get defensive if anyone fucks with that person who is doing nice things for me. In terms of me showing Fe I suck really bad at it and there is probably not much I can really do about that. I guess I need some kind of ENFJ gf

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    Quote Originally Posted by jixmixfix View Post
    Test run? pshhhh nice try though . The only thing I can say about Fe is that I tend to really appreciate when people do nice things for me truth is no one really seems to care about our feelings very much. and I'll get defensive if anyone fucks with that person who is doing nice things for me. In terms of me showing Fe I suck really bad at it and there is probably not much I can really do about that.
    Well, @Qlip... you have your work cut out for you!

    (P.S. I'd start with letting him use any extra garage space for doing auto/bike stuff. Then bake him his favorite cookies.... and well, go from there!)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Saturned View Post
    Well, @Qlip... you have your work cut out for you!

    (P.S. I'd start with letting him use any extra garage space for doing auto/bike stuff. Then bake him his favorite cookies.... and well, go from there!)
    Well I'm not sure if it's really Fe but it could be Fi too I think ISTPs need someone who can "undersand their feelings' without asking them a whole lot of logical questions. I notice when people ask me if something is wrong i'll be like "nothing" even though something might be wrong we tend to hide that sort of thing.

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    I'm not an expert, but the description in the OP screams ESTP to me.

    She sounds pretty rad and lots of fun, possibly a bit risky to get into a relationship with if she isn't ready for one.

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    Oh yeah and IF the show of emotion is fake It is very irritating to the ISTP has to be genuine.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Saturned View Post
    I feel like ISTPs have this gooey secret Fe that is kind of like secret Fi. You just have to tap into it with the right tools. Hmm... you should practice on @Randomnity or @jixmixfix to get some test runs in...

    P.S. I did a trial run with jix.... Pro Tip: Be willing to buy him dinner or he won't commit.
    So, is that what this forum is to you.. some sort of sordid dating simulator? Typology is serious business.

    I meant Fe. I did this thing a while back, where I could see people were dumping work on her, and she felt unappreciated. So, when I have her do some significant work for me, I'd give her a mini candy bar, once even a gold star. It's pretty ridiculous, but she'd just be so visibly happy about it, and everything was immediately OK. Is that some sort of inferior Fe reaction?

    Quote Originally Posted by jixmixfix View Post
    Well I'm not sure if it's really Fe but it could be Fi too I think ISTPs need someone who can "undersand their feelings' without asking them a whole lot of logical questions. I notice when people ask me if something is wrong i'll be like "nothing" even though something might be wrong we tend to hide that sort of thing.
    Yeah, I noticed she gets a bit stressed on how she doesn't feel like she makes the sense that she think she could. She ends up explaining a lot of stuff, but I think it's just to get people off her back.

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    Well, this may not be the final word, but it looks like it's a no go. Yesterday we had a chat and there was very unmistakable attraction, and nervousness and diarrhea of the mouth on both our parts. So, wanting to keep work/romance as separate as possible, I e-mailed her for her number after work and didn't get a response. So, just chatted her up now, just casual stuff, and she was a different type of nervous and was dropping giant hints that she was uncomfortable. So, I'm not sure what's happening, but it's out of my hands. I'm kind of dissapointed/relieved.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Qlip View Post
    Okay, I'm thinking about actually pushing for getting something started. I feel fairly confident.. maybe. But I am so terrible at typing people, especially people I know well.. yeah doesn't make much sense does it? Here's what I've got:

    Keep in mind that: She kinda had a rough upbringing. Her mom is a self obsessed, well.. ho, had more than a couple of affairs and is a very real alcoholic. Her and her many sisters duked it out on a daily basis, and had a kind of Lord of the Flies thing going on.

    She was a party girl back in the day.. got pregnant as a teen, guy is black, she's white, she liked him because he was exciting, flamboyant. She got her act together and is now a computer programmer and got her son though his Junior year.. pushing to college. She's very smart, but not intellectual, like at all. Doesn't like.. books, blech. Or weird stuff, unless it's funny.

    Her values seem to shift around a bit.. god, this is kind of sounding bad isn't it? Mostly they kind of take on whatever is around her. But she always tends towards the rough & tumble & horse sense. If she gets pissed at somebody, and I'm hoping it takes a bit, she really just really wants to hit them, mostly.

    Her second very long term boyfriend is an absolute bore, she claims she ended up with him because she wanted 'normal', didn't work.

    She dresses pretty sharp at work. She buys a whole new work wardrobe every fall. Casually, she's just kind of a jeans a t-shirt type of girl. But, she secretly wants to put rhinestones on everything and wear a feather boa, but feel self conscious about doing it. Watches tons of trashy reality TV. Hates meetings and any kind of confinement.

    She doesn't like feelings, nope.. not to talk about them.

    She walks like she's going to kick somebody's ass, and likes upbeat dance music. Does not like holding hands or PDA. Likes to drink and watch people. She has in fact raced against me in taking a piss when coincidentally splitting off to the restrooms simultaneously. Only after the fact did I know there was even a contest.

    Quotes:

    "I know I just look like a small blonde girl, but in my mind I'm 7' tall and Darth Vader."

    "I am a citizen of the Hip Hop Nation."

    "I just can't stay mad at people, even when I should. I just can't remember it."

    Hmmm.. I dunno. I guess I really like her because she just is so sensual to me, and also she's a fighter. When I first met her she was on the heavy side, and even then she had this really engaging way she lives in her skin. And she has absolutely near zero abstraction ability. When she talks about a situation, she is talking about a specific person and specific instance.
    Who cares?

    Have some taquitoes instead!!!


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    I like girls better than taquitos (at the moment).

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