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    this is my winter song EJCC's Avatar
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    Back on task... I think everyone missed this post.
    Quote Originally Posted by LunaLuminosity View Post
    Okay let's cook up a partner!

    Excellent partner-in-crime to most of my adventures
    Ambitious, visionary, and confident (in a slightly more focused way, that balances me out)
    But still laid back and casual most of the time
    An "artistic" sense of style
    Someone who listens to me with interest, and laughs out loud when the need arises
    Cannot be adverse to weirdness, greatly need openmindedness towards most things... particularly religion and social roles
    Well developed intellectual side... someone I could have at least light debate with without hurting
    Equally willing to team up on projects and let me do my own thing
    No cling, please. Nothing confining. But offers the occasional practical/helpful advice when I get too chaotic.
    Not afraid of feelings... someone who understands mine better than I do
    Somewhat physically active, a bit of an outdoorsy edge.

    ...I think that's enough for now
    I'm gonna go with ESTP. The bolded almost made me go with an F type, but ESTPs can be incredibly intuitive about other people's moods.
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    Back on track! Someone who can put up with me! Haven't found one yet... Who also finds it attractive. Mainly... Just someone who likes me and isn't imagined. /pity party.

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    Just to finally put the nail in the casket with my bad taste humor. The joke was implying he would be looking for girls LIKE HER on the net, not do anything incestual. sorry If It sounded that way. I was just kinda implying cute and innocent girl yet she's a total sex fiend.

    Now back to what we were originally supposed to be talking about. Would there at all be a conflict if I was with an infj being the kinda guy that plays by my own rules to an extent and prefers to do things my way? thats why I thought infp 6w7 kinda fits with what I want. But i'm sure there are many good arguments for the isfj
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    Quote Originally Posted by DJAcclaim View Post
    Just to finally put the nail in the casket with my bad taste humor. The joke was implying he would be looking for girls LIKE HER on the net, not do anything incestual. sorry If It sounded that way. I was just kinda implying cute and innocent girl yet she's a total sex fiend.

    Now back to what we were originally supposed to be talking about. Would there at all be a conflict if I was with an infj being the kinda guy that plays by my own rules to an extent and prefers to do things my way? thats why I thought infp 6w7 kinda fits with what I want. But i'm sure there are many good arguments for the isfj
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    Quote Originally Posted by Speed Gavroche View Post
    What about me?
    ESFP 7w8 sx/so

    Quote Originally Posted by EJCC View Post
    My first thought wasn't that it was abnormal; my first thought was that it was normal for the 1950's and earlier. But I guess that isn't offensive as long as you are all for her, too; because if you don't hold the same loyalty standards to yourself as you do for her, then I'll have to call you out on being sexist.
    Oh of course I would hold the same standards of loyaltytowards her; I would love her more than anyone else in the world.

    Quote Originally Posted by Rainbows View Post
    Other than its very cruel to want someone who is your partner to only have you as a friend, if her ideals and values where entirely identical to yours she could not fill in what you lack.
    OK, perhaps being devoid of friends entirely wasn't the wording that I meant; rather that she would be an introvert or loner to whom I could provide the love and company that she seeks. Also, I meant fullfilling what I lack by impersonal means; like being more organized then me, thus spurring me do accomplish more.

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    Quote Originally Posted by IndyAnnaJoan View Post
    Maybe through writing out what our ideal partners are like, we can also assess why we're likely single... ::facepalm::

    Mine:
    Taller than me (I'm 5'8" and seems like a lot of guys are right at my height or baaarely taller than me), my age or older (believe it or not, I have a hard time finding this where I live.) with at least a mild ambition of some sort. I'm tired of guys who still live like they're in their parents basement. I prefer guys that are more low-key, but still enjoys social interactions here and there. I also love when guys have interests and hobbies that they're really into. Especially the artistic types. I like a person that is intelligent, and kinda have a soft spot for the slightly nerdy. I like nice guys, and not your cocky, bad ass types. I like confidence in a man, too. That may be one of the sexiest things about a guy. I want to be with someone that never makes me feel jealous, and even were he to have the occasional crush, which I think is totally normal human nature, that we can joke about it, and I can still trust him and not worry he's trying to hunt the girl down behind my back. I'd like to be with someone with similar views as myself, as well.

    Basically, the perfect man, right?
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    I would say ISFP and INFP too, but you sound like a fairly strong woman who would tire of an IFP unless they had an usual amount of guts and confidence
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    Quote Originally Posted by Speed Gavroche View Post
    What about me?
    MBTI: some type of FP
    Enneagram: 7, 9, 4w3 or 5w4
    Instinct Variant: Sx/Sp, Sx/So or So/Sx
    ENFP: We put the Fi in Fire
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    Sunburst!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Elfboy View Post
    MBTI: ENFP, INTJ or a very mellow, sensual ENTJ
    Enneagram: 8w9, 1w9, 7w8, 4, 5w4 or 3w4
    Instinct Variant: Sp/Sx or Sx/Sp

    I would say ISFP and INFP too, but you sound like a fairly strong woman who would tire of an IFP unless they had an usual amount of guts and confidence
    I don't know if I could do ENTJ. Not with the experience I've had with the ones I've met so far in real life. haha. Though I do love INTJ's.

    I've fallen for a couple of ENFP's as well.

    I'm still not sure what my perfect personality compliment may be though. After speed brought it up, I'd kinda like to meet a male ISFJ.
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    I only know flawed people who are still worth loving."
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    My ideal tends to sound like an ENFJ.

    I am with an INFJ right now, and he's not an ideal, but he's real & he suits me over all (so far!).


    I typed up this ideal some time ago....anyway, like I said, I think it sounds like an ENFJ (enneagram 3?):

    - Physically attractive to me.

    - Chemistry. That mutual connection/spark/whatever you want to call it....

    - Intelligence is very important (but he doesn't have to be "book smart" like me). Good vocabulary & grammar is also nice . I usually prefer someone more "cerebral" than physical.

    - Has creativity/talent/expertise/special interests. I like a guy with a sense of who he is & who can express it in an interesting way.

    - Compatible interests to mine. Cultured: loves music, appreciates art, different foods, intellectual things, etc.

    - Compatible Humor; a combo of witty, playful, silly.

    - Kind, compassionate, thoughtful, considerate, encouraging, supportive. Responsible when it counts, but not rigid/uptight.

    - Can lead and initiate/plan. More organized and structured than me, but again, not uptight/rigid.

    - Spontaneous and adventurous and likes new things/ideas/places, etc. A sense of Romanticism.

    - Spiritual, shared beliefs. High moral standards and integrity.

    - Has deep feelings and is loyal, but not overly dependent or emotionally weak/clingy. I prefer someone who is warm and can express their feeling, but I don't mind someone more reserved either.
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    this is my winter song EJCC's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by OrangeAppled View Post
    My ideal tends to sound like an ENFJ.

    I am with an INFJ right now, and he's not an ideal, but he's real & he suits me over all (so far!).


    I typed up this ideal some time ago....anyway, like I said, I think it sounds like an ENFJ (enneagram 3?):
    Definitely, definitely sounds ENFJ. Describes my ENFJ type 3 friend to a T.
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