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    Quote Originally Posted by Elfboy View Post
    omg, I did too! I hate being an extrovert, but I'm a flamboyant, outspoken, theatrical ENFP and that's just who I am. I feel your pain


    It's from a lifetime probably of people telling you to calm down, shut up, or control yourself. I think that's the deal in my case. Or was. Now I don't care.

    And funnily enough, I was CRAZIER when I thought being the opposite of me was right. I went from one extreme to the other, including trying to change myself for a couple of years, and being entirely miserable in attempts to repress myself or make myself something I'm not, I have found a balance.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marmie Dearest View Post


    It's from a lifetime probably of people telling you to calm down, shut up, or control yourself. I think that's the deal in my case. Or was. Now I don't care.

    And funnily enough, I was CRAZIER when I thought being the opposite of me was right. I went from one extreme to the other, including trying to change myself for a couple of years, and being entirely miserable in attempts to repress myself or make myself something I'm not, I have found a balance.
    it's not because other people told me to calm down or shut up (I'm actually quite naturally calm), I just have always idolized INFPs and INTJs. it's probably from too much anime. Anime idolizes INJs and IFPs and makes Es and Ss look like neanderthals while the Is and Ns are deep, intelligent and heroic
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    Quote Originally Posted by Elfboy View Post
    it's not because other people told me to calm down or shut up (I'm actually quite naturally calm), I just have always idolized INFPs and INTJs. it's probably from too much anime. Anime idolizes INJs and IFPs and makes Es and Ss look like neanderthals while the Is and Ns are deep, intelligent and heroic
    Then I'd definitely go for Narcissistic rather than Histrionic for you.

    That's cool, though, whatever it takes to accept your type is a good type with positive attributes, just like every other type...that works.

    In fact, the more I learned about Jungian personality theory the more and more I realize how much I like my own type and don't want to be like others.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elfboy View Post
    maybe I need to get off my high horse and actually spend some time with people without being so repulsed by stupidity and common behavior?
    Is it possible that you fear commonness because deep down, in spite of the ideal you hold of yourself, you actually feel ordinary?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nicodemus View Post
    Is it possible that you fear commonness because deep down, in spite of the ideal you hold of yourself, you actually feel ordinary?
    I fear becoming ordinary, but good question
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    Quote Originally Posted by Elfboy View Post
    I fear becoming ordinary, but good question
    Me too!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elfboy View Post
    it's not because other people told me to calm down or shut up (I'm actually quite naturally calm), I just have always idolized INFPs and INTJs. it's probably from too much anime. Anime idolizes INJs and IFPs and makes Es and Ss look like neanderthals while the Is and Ns are deep, intelligent and heroic
    Are you kidding? ISTJs and ISFJs are given excellent treatment in anime. I'd agree for ESxPs, perhaps, but they're about it. All ENxx and ISxP types are treated well, too.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Elfboy View Post
    I fear becoming ordinary, but good question
    What do you see as "ordinary"?

    Also, that would seem to support the idea that you're an image triad type - to know what is extraordinary, one must be attuned to what is ordinary; quite the paradox, no?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Orangey View Post
    Are you kidding? ISTJs and ISFJs are given excellent treatment in anime. I'd agree for ESxPs, perhaps, but they're about it. All ENxx and ISxP types are treated well, too.
    I think you're right, ISs are usually treated pretty well, but I disagree on ENXX. ENPs are treated like shit in most anime lol. one thing we can agree on, anime LOVES INTJs. having an anime without a cool INTJ is like having a sewing circle without an ESFJ
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    Quote Originally Posted by Viridian View Post
    What do you see as "ordinary"?

    Also, that would seem to support the idea that you're an image triad type - to know what is extraordinary, one must be attuned to what is ordinary; quite the paradox, no?
    sports, gossip, trying to be relatable. in fact, it's completely irrational, but internally I sort of view any kind of social interaction for it's own sake as ordinary/tepid
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