I've been asked to give more information, so I suppose I'll give some out just to double-check things. Orobas says his sister's house is much prettier than his, but if my step-daughter had her own place she would turn it into a garbage dump within a few days. I think that's more a function of low IQ.
Let's see... Saying the first thing that pops into her head - there is no "inner censor" that considers the thought before she expresses it. Many times it comes out in a booming voice and needs to be told to tone it down. Desiring to be in the middle of chaos, if not the cause of it: if she sees a group of people she knows then she has an internal imperative to join in. If they're fighting, she gets right in there and starts badgering people in the group and can't be held back by any force of nature. If she saw a sick puppy, she would practically hug and "awwww" it to death before seeking help: an impractical expression of pity.
A dislike or hatred of exercise. A dislike of meaningless work. Working in an animal shelter would be best if she could handle the tasks. She thought little of fence-building. No, let's say instead she thought fence-building was purest torture straight from the depths of Hell.