well, a lot of it is that I read people extremely quickly with my NF powers. I can tell what's good about the person, what's bad about them, what modivates them, sometimes even their life's purpose (I have guessed people's life's purpose within a hour of meeting them and been right on more than 10 occasions). because of this however, I see all of people's bad qualities because they can't hide them from me like they can with 50% of guys who are STs. I'm not saying this to brag either, it's like a hyper sensitivity sometimes, especially with women (most of the women in my city are COMPLETE bitches).
shooing people away was a bit exaggerated and the wrong word to use, that's only the case in a few situations. you see, my personality is very entertaining and charismatic so people end up expecting me to do all these things, and people expecting things of me is something I find VERY offensive (I'm sure the wing 8 has a lot to do with this). usually I just don't like someone and leave, as most people I've found have at least one quality I find intolerable over long periods of time.
most people then go on to label me insecure, arrogant, self absorbed, selfish, dillusional, immature, shallow, closed minded or unhealthy and I just sit here thinking 'my point exactly. how does anyone tolerate imbeciles like this?' in truth, I am of above average emotional health, intellectually deep and I believe very mature for my age in terms of having my belief system down pat and knowing what direction I want for my life.
the worst thing though is people expect me to follow all these rules, protocol, social rituals and beliefs. few things make me more angry than telling me what I should think and trying to brainwash me. why can't people just talk to me as an equal instead of trying to subordinate me or suck up to me? why is the concept of existing as an equal and sharing information on a neutral, non judgemental playing field so damn difficult for most people? if I am a self righteous, self absorbed bastard, it's because i feel like the world is constantly trying to disturb me and cause mundane unpleasantries. as such, the vast majority of the people I get along with are extremely wealthy and high class.