Although, I think ISTJs might dislike INTJs as well.
Your repeated inability to handle your disagreement with Eco in a mature fashion is sad to watch. How old are you? Do you deal with all of your negative interactions IRL in this way? Every time I see the opportunity for you to slam her down you take it. You are aggressive, you never let an opportunity slide, and you are self-protective.
It comes across as though you don't have the matured internal mechanisms to let the possibility of someone else perceiving you to be anything other than how you portray yourself as a threat. Why do you care so much about slamming her down? Why can't you let things slide once in a while? Is your self-image that invested in what other people think of you?
*You don't have a soul. You are a Soul. You have a body.
*Faith is the art of holding on to things your reason once accepted, despite your changing moods.