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    Default This Enneagram 6 guy - ISFJ or INFP ?

    He is definite Introvert - quiet energy, but likes to go out a lot, but mostly with his small circle of friends. So, def I.
    F is also definately - one of the most emo (in a good way) guys I know. Extremely emotionally intelligent, but not whiney or drama queen. His relationships are EVERYTHING to him, his every second word is "my friends". Puts much effort in relationships and is quite successful in them.
    He is aware of being a very atypical male, and doesnt get allong with other guys well, because their conversations are boring to him, he prefers deep convos about relationships, and "only" thing that's saving him in male groups is because he likes football a lot, so that's good topic for conversations.

    He is definately Enneagram 6, which is probably the reason why I am confused: Respects authority. not ambitious at all, doesnt like changing things, thinks things function quite okay as they do.... and manages even convince me in some of that perspective.. has quite good arguments. He is not "sheep". But is not dreamer, at least not in the field of world problems.

    Is in architecture, but has many interests like math, photography, and nothing particularly: he's movies and music junkie. likes reading fantasy.

    About being detailed person.. well.... He doesnt pay attention to details, but isnt so blind to them as I am, he will actually do... things as is asked from him.

    He's very open minded, accepting of different people... etc.

    his sleep patterns are totally random...:/ i live with 2 ISTJs and it'd be v unusual to see them like that.

    what annoys him the most about other people is when they dont have/show consideration for others.
    He has very defined values, like, I cant even imagine having so defined value system. Which action is moral, which isnt. And doesnt judges people right away for something, but knows the action is not moral. :/

    we can analyze for days about all kinds of theories, mostly society and relationships, but he doesnt seem so much into theories, except when it comes to relationships... :/ maybe it's because i am comparing him to myself. but he doesnt have a trouble following or grasping theories quickly, i think he's much faster at it than i am. he figured MBTI in 1 minute after first looking at it and told me my type. He recognized himself in both INTP/INFP but much more in infp but didnt look into isfj.

    well dunno maybe i think of something more.

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    Well, if he recognized himself in INFP/INTP, maybe he is.

    Nothing disproves INFP you what you explained. Nothing particularly stands out as ISFJ. He could have well developed Si, specially if he is a male INFP.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Moiety View Post
    Well, if he recognized himself in INFP/INTP, maybe he is.

    Nothing disproves INFP you what you explained. Nothing particularly stands out as ISFJ. He could have well developed Si, specially if he is a male INFP.
    well shouldnt NFs be obsessed with changing world and stuff ?

    :/

    i mean, he doesnt really think globally. I am concerned about situation in 3rd world countries, he is not. He just accepts things as they are... because "it's hard to change them" and "they are changing, but slowly", he: "should we just destroy every system around us?" me: yes - where's Ne here ? :/

    and he recognized himself in intp/infp at first, people can be for months typed as infp and be isfjs, for example. it doesnt mean much. :/

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    Lol, no. Well, I dunno about other NFs, I might try to convince people of my points, but I won't go out of my way to stop from doing something, nor am I going into politics. Gave up on that idea when I was 12 or so. I believing in changing people's minds, because people are ignorant and selfish.

    But rules n stuff, I shit on them and ride towards the horizon. Don't care about changing them for others. If you change their minds, they'll change the rules.

    But it depends on what you mean by him thinking things function quite okay as they do.

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    He respects rules, but all of it is probably e6 thingie. :/

    But it depends on what you mean by him thinking things function quite okay as they do
    example: educational system. i think, in summary, "school kills creativity"; he is much more accepting of school system, says "it's made to work for majority of people"; "of course you should learn a little bit stuff you are not interested in, too (about HS)"... etc...

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    RUN!!!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Moiety View Post
    RUN!!!!!
    meaning ?

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    Meaning GTFO of there! He is in league with the Si!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Moiety View Post
    Meaning GTFO of there! He is in league with the Si!
    you changed your mind about his type just on that example or ? :/

    and what's wrong with isfjs. they're cute too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Petra Pan View Post
    you changed your mind about his type just on that example or ? :/

    and what's wrong with isfjs. they're cute too.
    Exactly. Cute fades fast.


    No, but seriously, it could be that he is just being magnanimous ( I personally don't like people who are too magnanimous, shows lack of passion). What's more important is WHY he thinks people need to study stuff that doesn't interest them.

    I could see myself saying what he said every other day. But it's mostly just when I don't want to discuss the subject in-depth.

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