i can appear either friendly or aloof
mushy usually makes me uncomfortable (in my head i usually question peoples intentions when they are mushy with me)
when angry or nervous I can be blunt, harsh, and logical
So using a thinking function sounds like a defense mechanism to me. But whenever you interact with others in a normal situation, do you tend to take their feelings in consideration, or more of your own values?
“Thoughts are the shadows of our feelings -- always darker, emptier and simpler.”
― Friedrich Nietzsche