Okay, now I'm confused. I mean, I've always tested as an "S" whenever I take these tests.. but it's usually about 53% S. Maybe it's the questions.. most of the online tests ask if I like theories and wonder about humanity. I don't, but does that automatically make me an S?
I can read both the ENFJ and ESFJ profiles and see how they both fit me.
ESFJ: like tradition, structure, and people
ENFJ: avoid problems, and center their lives around relationships, and have good communication skills.
These are the main points that fit me. So I ask all of you to answer: What are the main differences between an ENFJ and ESFJ?
As I stated they both really like people.. and I agree that I am a people person. However, I KNOW how to get someone to do what I want.. at the same time, I do avoid problems in relationships (ENFJ). My mom always jokes around about me being a lawyer because I know how to persuade people. However, I still value structure and security as much as the next SJ. Is it possible to be a true "X" (be 50/50 on the S/N) or do I still prefer one?
Thanks in advance for your input.