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    Lay the coin on my tongue SilkRoad's Avatar
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    I may not be able to provide a great deal of information – I’ve known this guy a few years, but not really really well. It’s more like every time we meet up we have a fascinating conversation – and I find him very attractive, I must say – but it’s not often enough…

    -Works very very hard for about ten and a half months out of the year, then goes on holiday for six weeks, usually alone and does something like hiking in the Peruvian Andes, going to a retreat in India or taking the Trans-Siberian Express. With reference to the latter, he said something like “It’s a bit like being in prison – I would probably be good at being in prison…” He does occasionally go on holiday with groups of friends – in fact, I will be going on holiday with him and a couple of mutual friends at the end of this month. He has already jokingly threatened to ditch us for most of the time there

    -I haven’t been on the receiving end of tough love from him, but have heard from a mutual friend that he’s more prone to dishing this out than sympathy.

    -Takes his commitments extremely seriously. Spends a lot of time looking after his elderly mom, caring for practical matters in his community etc. On the basis of offering practical help he is amazing, I think he really will do anything remotely reasonable for someone he considers a friend. He over-extends himself if anything.

    -I think he has an ascetic streak. He lived a crazy life when younger (he’s about 12-15 years older than me) and then turned himself around but I think he is now somewhat into self-denial. He spends so much time doing what he considers important, caring for his responsibilities etc that he leaves very little time for himself, except those solitary trips. I get the impression he thinks self-indulgence is a bit wrong or there simply isn’t enough time. He told me the other day that he wants to start doing a bit more again though, like going to gigs occasionally – he loves music. He has also been doing a bit of music with a friend recently.

    -A great person to discuss literature or philosophy with, though he can be a bit dismissive or flip sometimes.

    -Almost the only person I know who calls me nicknames. Not in person, but when he texts me, he comes up with some really funny ones, and I like it, I must say…

    My guess would be INTJ. But I don’t know if that’s the vibe any of you get from the above description.
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    This attractive guy must be me,
    What other attractive guys are there?

    But in all seriousness, he seems like an INTJ from what you've written.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mondo View Post
    This attractive guy must be me,
    What other attractive guys are there?

    But in all seriousness, he seems like an INTJ from what you've written.
    Thanks for the input And points for self-confidence
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    If this is any help: I thought INTJ when I read your description and was actually reminded of a specific INTJ I know.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Red Herring View Post
    If this is any help: I thought INTJ when I read your description and was actually reminded of a specific INTJ I know.
    That definitely helps!
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    IxTJ. Not sure I have enough info to conclusively diagnose N, but INTJ is most likely.
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    Pics? I am in favor of V.I.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chloé View Post
    Pics? I am in favor of V.I.
    No pics I can upload at the mo, I'm afraid. Do you really find that V.I. works/helps for type? I wouldn't have thought so, except maybe a little bit for ESFPs flinging their beer at the camera and roaring with laughter, that sort of thing.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Aleksei View Post
    IxTJ. Not sure I have enough info to conclusively diagnose N, but INTJ is most likely.
    I'm pretty sure he's N. In fact, the more I think about it I find it unlikely that he is anything other than INTJ. I was kind of wondering about J/P though. And like me, I think he may appear to be more extroverted than he really is.
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    Quote Originally Posted by SilkRoad View Post
    I'm pretty sure he's N. In fact, the more I think about it I find it unlikely that he is anything other than INTJ. I was kind of wondering about J/P though. And like me, I think he may appear to be more extroverted than he really is.
    He appears ultra-introverted but self-confident (not the same), which is one of the reasons ITJ is most likely. I'll take your word for it that he's an N -- IxTJs are P-dominant (and Ni is the most N-ish of N functions), so the difference is often significant.

    INTJ it is, then.
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