I'm trying to figure out my boyfriend's exes type . . . mostly cuz they have a kid together . . . so i see her when she picks their kid up or we drop the kid back off at her house. . . i'm thinking ENFJ . . .

for starters: I am an ENFP, so this is through ENFP eyes / bias

1) I feel extremely comfortable around her. I am goofy, casual, friendly . . . but she seems even moreso than me (btw we are both about the same age, mid 30's) . . . actually she feels funnier, quicker than me . . . like she is really good at remembering everything about everyone . . .she is definately more comfortable than i am at being the "center" of attention but she also GIVES everyone around her more attention than i do . . . when i'm around her i feel like an INFP . . . she really "lights" up the room, full of energy, smiles, warmth . . . very charming- - she is uninhibited & less hesitant / skeptical than i am . . .

2) my boyfriend says that she doesn't usually talk like that or act like that unless i'm around . . . he says she is usually a lot quieter . . . so i'm perplexed . . . he thinks she is trying to "show off" for me . . . but she seems completely genuine to me . . . so that's why i feel she's ENFJ . . . i just loved her right away (even though i didn't want to)

3) the 2nd time i "met" her she was unbelievably warm to me, telling me that she's getting rid of a bunch of old clothes that she just doesn't wear anymore & that i may like them & then telling me she makes jewelry & maybe i'd like her jewelry . . . she was just completely warm & upbeat - like trying to be helpful or bond with me or share with me . . . i find myself just very quiet around her but laughing a lot because she is so comfortable in her own skin or something.

4) she feels so much like me . . . so maybe she's enfp . . . but she just oozes charm more than any enfp i've ever seen. . . i'm perplexed.