I've been confused about my type lately..
I have a need for being around with people, being fairly active, i get depressed spending too much time alone, but I dislike crowds, public speaking, clubs/dancing.. i feel more on alert and paranoid in larger places like that. I don't particularly draw attention to myself either.. i like being on the sidelines and people coming to me. also, i care about appearances.
I'd sooner to listen someone with life experience than someone with theoretical advice/insight. While I appreciate them somewhat and can understand the latter, i always feel up in the air/unsatisfied with theory, constantly wondering "Yeah, but does it work that way..have you done it? do you know anyone who has? i want to meet them." etc.
I'm terrible at organizing my own life (chores, schedules, budgeting), but annoyed with people who aren't punctual with me (selfish i know ). i don't appreciate something/someone being late; if we agreed on something (an event, paying a debt), i'm not all "it's all good, dude" if they flake out. i take it personally.
i'm not the most emotionally expressive person, but i feel a lot within myself, and feel driven by convictions often. my external appearance is either cool or "sweet", a little inquisitive (more questions than talking). otoh, i'm very open and appreciative to anyone with lots of Fe. i don't freak out from it or anything.
hope that helps (might add more later)