fwiw i think you seem pretty ISFP. ISPs tend to be the most extraverted introverts, but you've expressed that Se probably isn't your dominant. i have a lot of trouble seeing you as an ESFJ given a significant mention of feeling hesitant around people and responsibility. even EFJs who deviate from average tend to be pretty secure in those areas. also, the way you talk in regards to F is more like an INFP does... it's less the warm squishy Fi of an EFP and more the subtle in-depth reasoning process of an IFP. your daydreaming and song-attention sounds like little Se manifestations as well. tertiary Ni could explain why you feel drawn to ENFP, while dom F /S aux could explain why you feel drawn to ESFJ.