Good day reader, I hope the title caught your attention.
After way too much deliberation, I have decided to hand off the decision for my MBTI type to the public. A close friend of mine (an enfj who lures me into a false sense of security in order to call me on all my shit and question all my life choices out of love) made me realize something recently.
I have been defining myself for what I do, and not what I am. I think the phrase she used was somewhere along the lines of "you are like light, you exist through travelling and action, but you have no mass." What she was getting at was that I define my life by what I do, what roles I slip into and what I accomplish, but that I'm unwilling to look deeper and find something because I'm afraid it won't live up to the expectations I have for myself.
So yes, overthinking has occured and I'm looking for some external feedback. Input appreciated! Hehe.
(even if it's not on type, just on the realization that you can't live only with your dreams in mind, and finding what existing in the present means)