im not sure if im just a girly, romantic entp
or just a perceptive and practical enfp
or if its just a flaw in the system
when it comes to my default, i do use my T function over my F
when it comes to romance, i tend to get very romantic and idealistic although i dont lose sight of my reason. im also very girly and i do get my feelings hurt by potential suitors or my s.o, especially when ive chosen to expose them. i can be pretty vulnerable and delicate sometimes.
im always dreaming and am very affectionate. i can be loving and caring but all of these things dont come too naturally to me...i cant be like this all the time although i want to. i also have to have a deep connection with someone or else it feels fake and just not right and i get "grossed" out.
when i read the "Quick Guide" i was kind of torn between these
Idealist/Catalyst (Abstract and Affiliative): Want to be authentic, benevolent, and empathic. Search for identity, meaning, and significance. Are relationship oriented, particularly valuing meaningful relationships. (INFP, INFJ, ENFP, ENFJ)
Rational/Theorist (Abstract and Pragmatic): Want knowledge and to be competent, to achieve mastery. Seek expertise to understand how the world and things in it work. (INTP, INTJ, ENTP, ENTJ)
when im in a relationship with someone or with my family, i want to be the idealist/catalyst with them and i usually kind of am to a certain extent.
personally, i do find myself as a theorist/rationalist
although i do sympathize with people's situations and i place myself in their shoes, i dont give any advice that is altered by feelings. i see their problems from different angles and always give the best advice i can.
i actually LIKE to hear people talk about their concerns but its more because im interested in their SITUATION, not necessarily them although helping them progress is an added bonus. i like figuring out the "bigger picture" of their situations and coming up with different conclusions.
i dont know...