Again with the good questions.
Yes, the problem is how to move from commodity to person.
So on a practical level, you might ask, how can I become a person?
And fortunately, in rich advanced societies, we have two options.
You may have noticed that prosperous societies have now turned into therapeutic societies, and that is, psychologically therapeutic societies. And indeed this site is a perfect example of a part of the therapeutic society.
So the first option is personal therapy.
And the second option is child rearing practice.
For as we move from slavery to commodity to person, we move from the sacrificial form of child rearing, to the abusive form of child rearing, to the authoritarian form of child rearing, to the helping form of child rearing.
Each form of child rearing is an improvement on the one before. And each particular form of child rearing creates its own form of personality.
So if you wish to move from a commodity to a person in a prosperous, advanced society, you have the option of taking part in therapy.
And for your children, you have the option of raising them in the helping mode.