well she's definitely extroverted but tones it down for her parents. not sure about the rest. i've said to her for example, "who do you think you are?" she answers by telling me her name. then i get pissed off because i think she's being smart but her dad will say, well you asked and she told you. logic. blah. ;p
she isn't very sensitive and things seem to roll off her back. i wish i was that way when i was her age. i'm glad she doesn't let things upset her. that alone will benefit her greatly. at the heart of it all i think she wants to be her own person, while pleasing her parents at the same time. she also likes to play strategy games with her dad and wow with me so ENFJ might not be far off. whatever she is though i admire her. so many good qualities.