So I had always assumed my cousin was an ESFP - she's a fun-loving, party-girl type, was in a sorority in college, business major, really into fashion, always looks really stylish and put-together, etc. I got to know her on a deeper level after spending time with her after a recent family event, and now I'm confused over whether she may actually be an ENFP.
Getting to know her, she is far more kooky/crazy/over-the-top (in a good way) than I'd realized before, saying off-the-wall things, having a lot of intensity in conversation, and bubbling over with energy and enthusiasm. For example, she declared out of the blue that she was thinking of getting online certification to be able to marry people in non-secular wedding ceremonies. I was like oh my god I love that you are so much weirder than I realized. (And I often experience that kindred-spirit-ish feeling around my kooky intuitive friends.)
Does that sound like an ENFP? Then again, we had a conversation about how I'm an atheist and she was very curious and had a lot of questions for me but I was struck that the possibility of god not existing seemed not to have occurred to her before. I would've thought NFs with their search for meaning-of-life and meaning-of-self would have grappled with that sooner. And her retail job doesn't seem super NF-y to me.
Any thoughts on whether she's N vs S? She's my cuz and I love her either way of course but I'm curious.