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    Quote Originally Posted by MrRandom View Post
    This is all too familiar to me! My mother and my sister are both ESFJ.

    Both of these ESFJs have always been trying to change my room (and nowadays my own apartment) and move my furniture, etc. When I tell them "No, this as it is works the best for me", they aren't getting it. Once, after a twenty-minute repetition of "No." I had to let my sister rearrange my furniture. When she left, I immediately moved everything as they were. They are utterly intrusive.
    Um MrRandom, newsflash: that's all parents who do that. Even INTPs behave this way, I've seen it.



    Don't believe me? Take a look at this. An INTP posted this:


    Quote Originally Posted by Ukon View Post
    Stressful day yesterday was.

    (WARNING: Child Abuse and fucking morons. Don't read if you're sensitive to these topics.)

    So my boyfriend and I are doing some shopping and we sit down to take a break and get some food in our tummies. This lady walks in with her (roughly 2 years old) daughter and they sit down next to us. All is normal until after a while, I look over and see the little girl has a bloody nose. Out of instinct, I grab some of our napkins and walk over, since the mom isn't even paying attention--she was on her cell phone. I say "Excuse me, miss, your daughter is..." and then wipe the blood off the little girl before putting the napkins up to her nose.

    Sure, maybe I shouldn't have, but for fuck's sake it was ALL OVER HER. Her dumbass mom wasn't taking care of her, so I had to step in.

    And then, I nearly punched the mom. Why? She fucking not only shoves me away, she starts screaming her lungs out at the poor girl. Me and some other people are trying to get the mom to calm down, and my boyfriend is holding the toddler and wiping her nose. I mean this bitch was fucking screaming all kinds of obscenities at her. It's a damn bloody nose, not your 2 year old kid confessing to murdering your dog.

    While all this is happening, I hear her say "When we get home I'mma whoop your little ass!" Aaand that's when my boyfriend and I call the cops. All this over a fucking bloody nose. The cuntbag turned out to have multiple drug and alcohol related offenses against her and a violent past. She isn't getting her child back. Thank whatever God or Gods there may be.

    I can't imagine what the little girl might've gone through considering how ridiculous her "mom" overreacted to a simple fucking issue. I'm glad SS took her from her mom. She deserves better. I actually offered to take her, but they had to decline since they prefer to give children to trustworthy relatives. I was pretty upset by it so I called my mom and thanked her for being an awesome parent who never yelled at me for simple accidents. And, you know, paid attention to me. And didn't act like a baby when I was a baby. Thanks, mom. I love you.

    Getting involved in things with which you have no business much?

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    Quote Originally Posted by ttrim View Post
    Hello there, I just joined today. I recently took the MBTI from a counselor and tested ESFJ. After coming here and reading all the posts it seems like my type is more of a curse for me. What are the reasons why everyone is so down on my type?
    Because they're loud and annoying.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tsunderes View Post
    Are they male?So far I've only noticed this with male ESFJ's,

    I think they're probably just trying to fit the traditional "manly-man" image thing.
    No, female.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nihilogen View Post
    Um MrRandom, newsflash: that's all parents who do that. Even INTPs behave this way, I've seen it.



    Don't believe me? Take a look at this. An INTP posted this:





    Getting involved in things with which you have no business much?
    Saving a child from her abusive, neglectful addicted mother IS my business, and I'll damn well take care of a child if their parents won't do their job. That is MY business if you can't be assed to be attentive to your child, especially a child who did nothing wrong. Thing is, I'm still flabbergasted that shit happened. People just don't pay attention to their children. In fact, they never did. They don't listen or stop to use logic. They just don't care. Hardly anyone is cut out to be a parent nowadays. And if they won't care, I will, because that's the next generation we have to raise. That's the next generation, and no child deserves being abused and neglected like that.

    I knew that mother was unfit just by how she was acting; I didn't need the cops to tell me she had a history of abuse with drugs, alcohol, among other things. If it was a mom who simply hadn't noticed, she wouldn't have reacted that way. She would have tended to her child, and all would have been well. But that stupid dirtbag even looked at her kid and didn't do a damn thing. She's lucky my boyfriend didn't smash her head against the floor. Unlike her, he actually is a decent human being.

    If I give more of a shit about your child than you do, then it is my goddamn business and I WILL step in.

    Don't even think of making such a sick comparison between some worthless scumbag of a mother who's abusing her daughter to people moving around your furniture. Yes, that is annoying and I totally sympathize with whoever you quoted, but don't even start. That shit isn't fucking cool.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ttrim View Post
    Hello there, I just joined today. I recently took the MBTI from a counselor and tested ESFJ. After coming here and reading all the posts it seems like my type is more of a curse for me. What are the reasons why everyone is so down on my type?
    People like to believe stereotypes, and extend those stereotypes to all esfjs, or any type. It's annoying, but I say just continue to post and be you. And you'll either be an asshole or be awesome, which doesn't matter what type you are, also I think people find one person of a type and hate that person, so every other person of that type is automatically hated. I've been guilty of that myself.
    In no likes experiment.

    that is all

    i dunno what else to say so

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    I like that this was OP's first and only post
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    Quote Originally Posted by Haven View Post
    I like that this was OP's first and only post
    I didn't read the date it was posted, oh well.
    In no likes experiment.

    that is all

    i dunno what else to say so

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    What is everyone talking about? ESFJ's are one of the most popular types in real life.

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    Quote Originally Posted by great_bay View Post
    What is everyone talking about? ESFJ's are one of the most popular types in real life.
    My thoughts exactly. People online aren't going to like them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by great_bay View Post
    What is everyone talking about? ESFJ's are one of the most popular types in real life.
    Second time I'm quoting myself today.

    It's more out of laziness for efficiency's sake than vanity (...probably).

    Quote Originally Posted by Wind Up Rex View Post
    Are we talking about the most disliked type in general? Or the type that we personally find distateful? Last I checked, ESFJs generally socially succesful individuals. Most of the ones that I know have a lot of friends, and are pretty socially capable. That might be grounds for dislike on this Island of Misfit Toys, but it's not in the rest of the world.

    If we're talking about personality types that tend not to be liked by most people they encounter, then we're talking about INTs. No one has time for INTPs and their Ti-dom nitpicking, Fe-inferior morally superior while meanwhile basically lacking in life skills personas. And people could similarly give two shits about INTJs and their arrogant, dogmatic and generally insufferable, high-handed dickishness.

    And why is this the case? Well, for one, the average person is fairly fucking stupid. They tend to gravitate towards what's familiar and makes them feel good about themselves, and disdain the things that aren't and don't. People don't hate ESJs: that's their mothers and fathers; their coach and the cheerleader who wouldn't look at them twice--regular fixtures of mundane lives who maintain the status quo for themselves and others. The ones people hate are the know-it-all little shit heads who made them feel dumb in math class, and now work at Goldman or pullin seven figures at a gig in Silicon Valley or do neither and yet still feel superior from the safety of his mom's basement. Those are the guys who earn real and lasting contempt from the hoi polloi.
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