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Help me type my new love interest!

Thessaly

I drink your milkshake.
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The type of the guy I am dating completely eludes me so I must enlist your help. Here is how I would describe him:

-Funny as hell. Very, very entertaining and difficult to embarrass.
-Has no concept of propriety and defies social norms
-Incredibly talented at figuring out people's motivations and pressing their buttons
-Likes transforming people and helping them reach their potential
-Artistic (sends me texts in prose)
-Very emotionally strong and self sufficient
-Interested in negotiating, sales, business
-Is a radio broadcast DJ
-Has a very dark side
-Good at getting people to expose all their dirty secrets
-Intuitive as hell
-Likes to get to the bottom of things quickly; asks very personal questions freely; likes investigating people and detecting all their qualities
-Oodles of self confidence
-Very extroverted
-Very dominant and dominating; a leader

From reading type descriptions I am thinking either ESFP or ESTP. Perhaps I will get him to do a test....
 

Scott N Denver

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ENTP???

sounds E and T to me, and P

You do meet interesting dates don't you Thessaly, got any good advice to share with the rest of us???
 

2XtremeENFP

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ENFP
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ENxP I think. The transforming people to help them reach their potential is something I can relate to. So I'm leaning towards F.. but a male F :)
 

BlackCat

Shaman
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Sounds ENTP.
 

OrangeAppled

Sugar Hiccup
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I'm going with ENTP also.
 

BlackCat

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Moved to What's My Type?

:nono:

Don't ask, I guess the NF section is better than the What's My Type section for asking what type people are. :D
 

Oaky

Travelling mind
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sp/so

King sns

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yep, that's an entp alright
 

Litvyak

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1. Incredibly talented at figuring out people's motivations
2. Likes transforming people and helping them reach their potential
3. Likes investigating people

= ENTP?????

It's either that I really don't understand MBTI, or this person is definitely NOT an ENTP. I'd say ENFP.
 

StephMC

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Am I the only one that thinks this sounds ESTP? :mellow: In my experience, ESTPs are more curious about motivations than ENTPs
 

OrangeAppled

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Am I the only one that thinks this sounds ESTP? :mellow: In my experience, ESTPs are more curious about motivations than ENTPs

That's true. And the OP says she suspects ESTP and she actually knows him.
 

Oaky

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Am I the only one that thinks this sounds ESTP? :mellow: In my experience, ESTPs are more curious about motivations than ENTPs
You are... EDIT: oops now your not
 

kathara

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1. Incredibly talented at figuring out people's motivations
2. Likes transforming people and helping them reach their potential
3. Likes investigating people

= ENTP?????

It's either that I really don't understand MBTI, or this person is definitely NOT an ENTP. I'd say ENFP.


Yes, all can go for an ENTP. I am an INTP and still have those characteristics. Must be the Ne.
 

StephMC

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-Artistic (sends me texts in prose)

Can you expand more on that? :p Is there anything else that leads you to believe he's artistic other than the texts?
 

Thessaly

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Can you expand more on that? :p Is there anything else that leads you to believe he's artistic other than the texts?

Well he cut his finger the other day to drip blood over some of his poetry (no lie). He dresses in a very expressive manner (rarely matching). He loves acting and is very good at it. He also loves writing and is quite good at that too. He's definitely a smart cookie so ENTP may just be it. He tests me a lot which reminds me of the previous ENTP I dated before who used to challenge me for fun all the damn time.
 

Thessaly

I drink your milkshake.
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ENTP???

sounds E and T to me, and P

You do meet interesting dates don't you Thessaly, got any good advice to share with the rest of us???

Be yourself? Seems to work for me lol I seem to attract interesting people...must be because I'm interesting!

Also for identifying his type: He's an incredibly good kisser and the most seductive man I've ever met. Nothing is taboo to him sexually and he seems quite keen on getting to that base asap.
 

Litvyak

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Yes, all can go for an ENTP. I am an INTP and still have those characteristics. Must be the Ne.

I don't see a connection between Ne and being fond of helping or transforming people. What do you mean?
 
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