BAH! I got to page 19 and just couldn't read any more!
I N F J
Seems pretty NI/Fe to me. sorry lauren ashley for disagreeing with you
Lethe and Simulated and Black Cat and pijul....? made some great examples of Ni/Ne and Mystic always came back and supported more Ni thinking than Ne thinking and more Fe than Fi thinking, imo. He was leaning infj until he took more bogus functions tests (i guess) and started saying infp. NO WAY.
His style is too terse and direct to be infp, overall. He's not flowery and wordy and expressive like infps are.
Mystic: I was diagnosed with ADD as a child, although it was, I believe, a bad diagnosis, but my mother wasn't sure what to make of me. I live in my head (as you said you do) and draw MY conclusions over time and much contemplation. I care about people primarily, but I have very strong Fi too. Instead of coming from somewhere within, my F is guided first by what my significant others, i.e. children and family need MOST (Fe) (not necessarily groups or the community, which, again, is a misleading lay description).
Sim said some stuff about Fi in the middle of the thread I didn't agree with for myself, or was it Fe? Anyway, with Fe I know the cultural expectations and can use them with ease, but it doesn't mean I internalize them. I don't. I do what I damn well please..........except when I'm around others. However, I genuinely adore people, and want the best for them.........when I am around them.
Another function guru on here says beyond the first two functions, you really can't rely on function order at all. If you read through the thread again, you'd see that you answered more Ni affirmatives than Ne, and same with Fe vs. Fi. Plus you sort-of resonate like peguy to me in a lot of ways, not so much the other infp males on here.
EDIT: And the male INFJ username "Sky-something" too, or especially