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    Default what are esfp females like irl?

    i have a hard time typing people close to me. my best friend has taken different online test several times, with differing results. she has come up as infj, isfj, enfp. i KNOW she is an F P, but other than that, i'm not sure. i'm pretty sure she isn't enfp, because i know one and she isn't like that. i think she's esfp. she's pretty introverted anymore, but she used to be the kind of person who would carry on lengthy convos with the check-out people and anyone else. she's pretty stressed with a sick husband and working full-time, plus having 3 kids, so i'm wondering if she's just acting like an introvert because she's maxed out. she doesn't fit the isfp description too much.

    she tests 'n' but she seems so concrete to me. she loves to go to music in the park on a whim, loves to go to live music period. loves to do anything exciting. loves to drink. kinda selfish in some ways in that she puts her fun over her family sometimes, but not in an unhealthy way.

    i've searched for 'esfp' threads so i wouldn't be redundant, but can't really find any. if you guys can fire off some quick characteristics of esfp women that stand out for you, i'd appreciate it. and i'll go from there.

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    They wanna have some fun
    (they wanna have some fun)
    Move their body all night long
    (move their body all night long)....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jeffster View Post


    They wanna have some fun
    (they wanna have some fun)
    Move their body all night long
    (move their body all night long)....


    haha. yeah. she seems to have a hard time discriminating between, um, nice guys and weirdos as well. drives me crazy when we go out. like her Fe is totally nonexistent. or is that Fe?
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    ESFP women?

    NEED to socialize. indulgence, sin, seem to view life as an eternal cornucopia from which flows an endless supply of pleasures that require no effort on my part to insure.
    - From your fun-loving ESFP.
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    If she seems at all introverted, then I doubt she's ESFP! My ESFP mother (bless her) had a very tough life, and the tougher it got, the more she complained and inflicted her misery on others. I know a couple of ISFP women and they are very, very outgoing and fun-loving, and although they don't mind a shoulder to cry on, they don't burden you with their troubles if they don't think you don't want to know. Another test is that although ESFP's are incredibly generous, ISFP's are even more so -- they'll do absolutely anything to help out a friend and it really hurts them when they can't help.

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    ENFP
    zany charm, storytellers, lots of PDA, silly switch, hasty, neglects old friends for new ones, doesn't follow through
    Robin Williams

    INFP
    childlike wonder, sees good in all, translate technical jargon into layman's terms, imaginary friends, wants ethical perfection, laziest of all the types
    The Neverending Story (Sebastian)

    ENFJ
    teachers, pedagogues of humanity, make dreams come true, love others with actions, manipulative power, answer every interruption, martyr mentality


    INFJ
    poetic justice, prophetic, counselor, inner vision, detached sardonic eye when thinking, 'SP' wannabe, stuck in dream world


    ESTJ
    supervisors, rule enforcers, offers and accepts service from others and to others, tough, humorous, joiners, regulate what's normal, hates laziness


    ISTJ
    inspectors, devoted to duty, punctual, tough, emotion=energy loss, tactless, upset if you violate time honored traditions


    ESFJ
    rescuer, mothering, caretakers, protectors, liberal gift givers, enjoy being in charge, hyper vigilant, stern then unexpectedly merciful, vexed when bad situations happen to them, hard time letting go after a breakup or death of a lover


    ISFJ
    loyal, give more than they take, would leave if person they are loyal to got fired, family oriented, doormats, possessive, can't delegate, low profile, very conventional
    Jerry McGuire movie


    ENTP
    clever, bond suddenly, sense of humor, tackle challenges, love to argue and play devil's advocate, not patient with dumb people
    The Shape of Things

    INTP
    precise, loves complex systems, logical, detailed, corrects others especially with grammer, second guesses themselves, afraid of failure

    ENTJ
    the general in a war, decisive delegators, charming, great salesmen, icy gaze, argumentative, insensitive, melodramatic


    INTJ
    self confident, pragmatic, system builders, direct, work hard at their relationships, appear arrogant, perfectionists, anti-authority, intuition is so strong and good at determining needs and wants that feeling is not needed, awkward in love relationships
    A Beautiful Mind movie


    ESTP
    thrill seekers, competitive, conquerers, constant activity companions, impulsive, classic 'SP' rage, admission of weakness means failure, tough emotionally


    ISTP
    performers, masters of the one liner, humorous, usually vocational hobbies like mechanics, thick skinned, classic 'SP' rage, anti-authority, rigid, inflexible, need personal space, dormant then active in a frenzy for what seems like no reason

    ESFP
    entertainers, party animals, storytellers, witty, classic 'SP' rage, spiderweb talk that is confusing like an old man with Alzheimer's, new replaces the old, constant activity companions, too talkative, usually dumb
    Big Fish the movie

    ISFP
    trendsetters, hit and run compliments, charming, takes risks, lives out their dreams, classic 'SP' rage, will cut and run if feels dead inside, detached, aloof, conceals feelings, hates school but smart when it comes to experiential learning
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    ^You have some crazy stuff in there.

    Quote Originally Posted by Lily Bart View Post
    If she seems at all introverted, then I doubt she's ESFP!
    I disagree. Overtaxed Extroverts can introvert because they are using up all their extroversion on everything they are doing. They can also end up overstressed. My mom (esfp) hardly leaves her house sometimes because of depression.

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    They are terrible.

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    From experience, ESFPs can range from over-active, sporting doers to quite mild, artistic, warm and philosophical, to even quite sensible and reserved. The more mild ones you could sometimes mistake for ENFPs, but there is no Ne to be seen. The are not always stupid either. The most obvious part of ESFPs is they embrace life while others sit and ponder. The ones I know are quite talented at something, though more focussed on skills than theory. One sings amazingly, another is great at sports of all kinds. The difference from ENFP is they are detail and action oriented, rather than big picture theoretical. They want to embrace and experience everything in existence, we want to dig into it and understand it. The difference from ISFP is quite significant also.
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    Wow! I find these descriptions good, succinct and non-judgemental. kudoos

    Quote Originally Posted by princessleia1982 View Post
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    poetic justice, prophetic, counselor, inner vision, detached sardonic eye when thinking, 'SP' wannabe, stuck in dream world
    Dammit.

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