Ironically, E is the only thing I'm sure of with you.
That's a refreshing answer.
I've been called both IRL.
I've been called an introvert because I like to read and am not super heavy on the socializing. Some people are highly suspicious of those of us who like to stay in our room and read.
I've been called an extrovert because I'm outspoken, I like to talk about things, and if I want to talk to someone I will approach them. I've noticed that when I work with teenagers they seem to find me easy to talk to, and a "grown up" they'll be honest with or even trust.
"Sentiment without action is the ruin of the soul." - Edward Abbey
I get an INFP and Fi-dom vibe from you, and I relate to a lot of what you post. INFPs can have good social skills , but some are prone to poor ones because they indulge their introversion (I have been guilty of that...). I'm not sure how old you are, but I've seen many introverts become much more socially at ease and confident with age.
"Charlotte sometimes dreams a wall around herself. But it's always with love - So much love it looks like everything else. Charlotte Sometimes - So far away, glass sealed and pretty." - The Cure
I suffered from the same problem when I came here, if anyone can remember, I was typed as an INFP for nearly 6 months before I realized I might be an ENFP. I still question my type as an ENFP because I still feel like an INFP sometimes.
I like to talk about things, problems, and am not very passive aggressive. I am a goof sometimes, and am not extremely shy.
But I am alone a lot, and prefer to be alone sometimes. I am a loner, as it is. Not saying I don't have friends, I just prefer to be alone sometimes. I need my own bubble.
But nonetheless, I am an ENFP, and perhaps this might help you a bit.
Is it that by its indefiniteness it shadows forth the heartless voids and immensities of the universe, and thus stabs us from behind with the thought of annihilation, when beholding the white depths of the milky way?