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    Senior Member GirlFromMars's Avatar
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    Question Where's the typing experts?? :)

    Hey. If people could help me type my new boyfriend, I'd really appreciate it.

    + Quiet guy, reserved, pretty laid-back. Sometimes VERY quiet, where I have to ask if he's OK and worry something is up (but that's maybe just my paranoia. ) Often seems to be drifted off into some daydream - staring into space. I thought he was shy at first, but actually I don't think he's that shy - just quiet.
    + With that said - he does like to be around people. Likes to go clubbing sometimes, go to a few bars for a few drinks, go into the city, has had no problems meeting a few of my family.
    + Is studying Politics in University, but says he isn't sure what he's going to do at the end of it, lol.
    + Enjoys Sudoko, Word Searches, Crosswords, reading newspapers - often gets lost in them.
    + Is very touchy-feely with me. Lots of cuddling, holding hands, kisses, tickles etc. Seems to show his feelings more through actions like these than words. He does say sweet things sometimes, but I feel like he speaks with his actions more if you know what I mean. Atlough its early in the relationship, so could just be worried about what to say I guess.
    + Seems (early days ) genuinely sweet and caring. Also seems quite sensitive. He has said a few things that makes me think maybe he thinks that he shouldn't be? I'm not quite sure, but for an example he told me about when he was young and went to bed early and would look at the sunset and how nice it was. He then said "I'm a bit stupid like that" Loves animals and is very good with kids (and often make "aww" remarks when we see a cute kid/baby/puppy/kitten) Also appreciates nature (doesn't like to kill bugs, likes it when he sees a ladybug, or butterfly for instance)
    + Talks nice and politely. Mostly well-mannerd. Atlough not afraid to talk more dirty if needed. But He also has a sarcastic sense of humour. Will make little sarky remarks sometimes , and it's a bit hard for me to always know if he joking or not!
    + Is playful. Like will do silly things like get a water gun and spray me while camping, splashing me with water while washing-up lol. Will keep trying to tickle me when I lest expect it and silly things like this.
    + Dresses casually but nice. Nice t-shirts or shirts, pair of jeans, sneakers. All clean and always smells real good. Takes a nice balanced, healthy pride in his apparence.
    + Is pretty lazy otherwise! Very slouchy - will just like slouch all over me, lol. Is often quite sleepy too. Seems a bit of a procrastinator like me.
    + When we were in a situation that caused my feelings to be hurt (wasn't actually his fault, just something that happend concerning him) he was calm at first and was like "Ok, let me think about this" and I could see he was thinking things through, and he talked pretty matter-of-fact and like he was trying to make it as calm as possible. But then he did get a little upset, and raised his voice very slightly and said "don't you think this (the problem) makes me feel inaduqate?" then he was like "Im sorry, I shouldn't have shouted" But it really was hardly shouting. I didn't want to argue, so just asked him for a hug, he hugged me back fine. Was forgot about very quickly.

    Enough info? :p I do think we're similar in a lot of ways, but not quite getting the INFP vibe? Something seems different. I'm a bit crap at typing though.

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    Some sort of IXFX. Not sure on P/J or S/N. I'm leaning toward F, but I'm not factoring out T. What sort of vibe do you get F/T wise?
    () 9w8-3w4-7w6 tritype.

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    I am thinking the same as you. I'm leaning more towards F, but he could possibly be T. These are the two I'm most stuck on. In that little hiccup we had, I think he was trying to work out the problem logically, but then his feelings came out. He actually admitted afterwards that he was "holding it in" while I let it all out straight away. Hmm... ?

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    That doesn't sound T or F really. A lot of the info you gave was too vague for S/N, and usually P/J is a hunch for me.

    Give some reasoning behind each one. Like, S maybe because-, P maybe because-, J maybe because-, N maybe because- etc.
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    You could dump him for a couple of days for pretends and then, and only then, will you find out that he's really been an ENFJ all this time Let it ferment for a while. Something will come up that might shed his facade.
    everyone uses every function about evenly. take NE for example. if there are those who don't use it much, then why are there such massive amounts of people constantly flowing through Wallmart with 20 items or less?

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    ISFP?
    Act your age not your enneagram number.

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    I get I-FP, but there isn't enough information about the S/N.


    Ne > Ni > Ti > Fi > Te> Fe > Se > Si

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    INFJ. The ultimate extraverted introvert. Actually sounds like one of my good friends.

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    My initial reaction was IxFJ. He sounds a lot more polite and composed than an IxFP would be, and I get an overall Fe vibe. I think we need more info to determine S or N though.
    Often a star was waiting for you to notice it. A wave rolled toward you out of the distant past, or as you walked under an open window, a violin yielded itself to your hearing. All this was mission. But could you accomplish it? (Rilke)

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    Too polite to be an I_FP.

    INFJ or ISFJ.

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