My dad is outgoing around other people, he loves to flirt. Around the house he wants complete silence and doesn't talk at all, just barks out orders.
He works long and hard, preferring hands on type of jobs. I remember our closet having so many tools, welding helmet, solder gun, dent puller, plus all the other odds and ends (hobby of his). He didn't seem to work well with others and liked to work alone.
I don't know anything about his past since he never talks about himself or his past.
He loves going out to restaurants, as he doesn't have to wash dishes and he can flirt with waitresses. Oh and he is a major perfectionist. Wipe the shelves, counters, stove, sweep, and mop the kitchen everyday, even the door frames had to be dust free.
When I was younger I remember him spit shining his shoes, every night it was his routine also another routine of his was to sit outside watering the lawn and on the weekends, having us kids pull the weeds, collect earthworms for fishing and camping trips. He also would make a space between the lawn and the sidewalk quite occasionally and use a trimmer (I don't remember the exact word for it).
Once he threw me out of the house because my son was sitting in the front room on the coffee table eating a powdered donut and took the opportunity to tell me and he tracks in leaves when he comes in. I don't remember my son tracking in leaves. At that time the parking area was gravel and there was a set of concrete stairs to his place, plus he had a mat. How my son tracked in anything I don't know. It wasn't raining, but anyhow I never stayed with him again after that. His perfectionistic attitude was just overbearing.
He loves fast cars, and can be quite cruel to women who care about him. Once a girlfriend called him to pick her up from home, as she wanted to come over to see him. He told her I am not your damn taxi and hung up. She came over on her own anyhow. Seemed like those women didn't mind being treated like that. I swore I would never put up with shit like that, but anyhow can anyone tell me his type? I'm thinking xSTJ. Any thoughts?