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    -Always fills days with busy activities
    -A "follower" in terms of these activities, rarely ever the instigator
    -Enjoys socializing, partying, always down to do "whatever"
    -Refrains from sharing personal opinions for fear of being rejected by social groups
    -Will encourage those "beneath" the self, thinking "I have the power to help."
    -Will make sure those "above" don't see themselves as "better," thinking "I can't beat you, but don't think you can beat everyone."
    -A peacekeeper of sorts, not wanting to actively participate in conflict
    -Moves from relationship to relationship
    -Gets very distraught over the notion of an "ex" never wanting to have contact again
    -Constantly waits to take action until the very last second
    -Uninterested with theory (type theory, to be exact), and feels the need to experience life rather than to sit and talk about it
    -Strong sense of obligation to friends and family
    -Good with numbers
    -Strong work ethic
    -Always attempting to please others
    -Strong sense of morality and values, though rarely exhibits such
    -Strives to be original, but in actuality becomes cliche

    Tested: 1 year ago, as an ESFP. Recently, ENFJ. I personally disagree with the ENFJ typing; I know the type, and this individual does not exhibit the qualities. I am leaning towards SFP, but cannot state this with utmost confidence. Suggestions?
    "In the game of chess, you can never let your opponent see your pieces."

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Grand Chameleon View Post
    -Refrains from sharing personal opinions for fear of being rejected by social groups
    -A peacekeeper of sorts, not wanting to actively participate in conflict
    -Always attempting to please others
    This sounds very Fe (FJ). If I were to take a guess based on all you've written, I would say ESFJ.

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    I don't quite have enough information to work off of here. However, if I were to make a guess, I'd say ExFJ.
    If a deaf INFP falls in the forest and no one is around to hear it, does it make a sound?

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    Why J over P? I would think the reluctance to act, the indecisiveness, and the constant jumping from relationship to relationship would lean an individual more towards P. I also forgot to mention that the individual somewhat lacks organization both at home and with interpersonal relationships. But then again, I am still fairly new to typology.
    "In the game of chess, you can never let your opponent see your pieces."

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Grand Chameleon View Post
    Why J over P? I would think the reluctance to act, the indecisiveness, and the constant jumping from relationship to relationship would lean an individual more towards P. I also forgot to mention that the individual somewhat lacks organization both at home and with interpersonal relationships. But then again, I am still fairly new to typology.

    Well, I was about to say ExFP, but I guess I'm wrong. lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by DisneyGeek View Post
    Well, I was about to say ExFP, but I guess I'm wrong. lol
    X? What makes you say a combination of N and S?
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    Oh it's not a combination. It means that I don't know whether or not you are an sensor or an intuitive. Hold on while I fetch a link to something...

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Grand Chameleon View Post
    Why J over P? I would think the reluctance to act, the indecisiveness, and the constant jumping from relationship to relationship would lean an individual more towards P. I also forgot to mention that the individual somewhat lacks organization both at home and with interpersonal relationships. But then again, I am still fairly new to typology.
    Don't get the lack of organization confused with being a P. Many P's are extremely organized. And just because they're indecisive, doesn't make them a P. If they do have a number of P qualities, they are probably a weak J. I myself am not really decisive and like to take it easy, believe in putting in the least effort to succeed at something, I'm a weak J, but still a J.

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    Indecisive and unorganized can be intuitive traits as well.
    everyone uses every function about evenly. take NE for example. if there are those who don't use it much, then why are there such massive amounts of people constantly flowing through Wallmart with 20 items or less?

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